There's nothing really wrong with me itz just my friendz. Is this bullying? If so, wot should I do?
2007-01-11 08:22:34 · 16 answers · asked by chrissy 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
stand up to them! if you let them get away with it they'll carry on and make your life a misery (and you shouldn't be calling them friends if they are like that with you) find other people to hang around with.
2007-01-11 08:31:33 · answer #1 · answered by mishnbong 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is, i forever got that because of the people i went around with. i was forever called a freak/ goth/ etc. maybe they are afraid of you which is why they run away from you.
you should tell they head teacher if he/she does nothing about it then take it to the school board. then they have to do something because if you even threaten to take it to the school board they will do something as they try to keep up a good image. however it can take a long time it took 4 years for the bullying i got to stop. now i just get called a lesbian which i am not. Eventually they will grow it of it just don't give up hope and let them get you down like i did
2007-01-13 14:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by gemz1990 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're just immature. It's always easy to pick on someone when everybody else is doing it. If you have a friend that doesn't tormant you in that way... stick close to them.... they are your real friends.
Hopefully this will pass. Stay strong, and proud of the perso you are. If you are confident about yourself, people will either be attracted to that or intimidated by that. You'll be able to tell the good people from the bad.
2007-01-11 16:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on sweetie....drop the people that you say are friends(because they truly are not!!!)and get some real friends that stand behind you and back you up instead of making fun of you!!!! The world is a cruel enough place-don't let your friends be cruel too....real friends would not even consider something so harsh!! You are better than these so called friends! Tell them their vote does not count anymore!!!!Good luck and take care!!
2007-01-11 16:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by dodlydink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, yes I feel that it is bulling. If someone makes you feel unconftiable or if you cannot carry out your normal day. The first thing you should always do is speak to your favorite teacher and one of your parents or another family memeber that you can trust....Good luck and have a good day x
2007-01-15 11:53:47 · answer #5 · answered by xgirlsluv2shopx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you say, " there's nothing really wrong with me". I would say the behavior of most school age kids, is to find a target, for what ever reason, you are that target. I would say you are going to have to avoid them and work on making new friends.
2007-01-11 17:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by justice2842 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this is bullying. even i get bullied at school but not by ma friends. they aren't ur friends if they behave like this. consult a teacher or tell ur parents of what is happening. join a few clubs and out of school activities and try getting to know more people.
2007-01-11 18:35:17 · answer #7 · answered by cookiecracker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they really your friends? Sounds very mean to me. I know it is hard but just ignore what they are doing and keep smiling. Bullies always get worse if they think they are affecting you.
2007-01-11 17:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself,take a look in the mirror and if you like what you see then no need to change.If not then make changes that you are happy with.Try not to be to self concious. I wish you well.
2007-01-15 08:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by Blackbird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a real friend who will give you a scincere answere about the way you look and act if there,s a problem sort it and **** the rest,happy life be strong.
2007-01-14 16:51:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋