My ex. was a abusive man.. we have broken up for 2 months approx now.. and he still talks to me and comes to meet me at work .... It so weird he has not got over it.... and the funything is ... he says i am jeleous of his achievement... I mean is this man nutz????
I helped him get 2 jobs previously or he would have been stuck in some shitty call center most of his life... lost 3 jobs in one year .. and balmed that on me.. ??? and hello i am jeleous of him .... hahahhaha... is he suffering from some mental problems?
2007-01-11 08:21:35 · 10 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, he is not going to leave you alone until you "Lay down the Law, with him!!!" Believe me, I devorced, one of those 3, almost 4 years ago, who not only abused me, physically in front of our children, but mentally and emotionally messed with my head so bad, I'm scared to date again!!! There sick in their heads, and if your not careful , you'll never have a life of your own!!! GET OUT and run fast somewhere , where he can't find you!!! And quit associating with him, period!!! Because, he'll take it as "There's still a chance down the line of the two of you getting back together" and if you dont break away, what will happen should you meet someone else, "he'll ruin that relationship for you two" because he'll most likely be threatening the poor guy, and the guy will just say "I dont have time for this chick , she's got old baggage, still around!!!" You know..... Unless, you can tolerate abusive men? I dont know? If I were you, I'd run hard and fast in the other direction, and cut all ties!!! Completely!!! Smile!!!
2007-01-11 08:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by Hmg♥Brd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, even for an abuser it is hard to let go. But I would try to stop him from coming to my job unless you are still interested. Remember the abuser's job is to break you down mentally as well as physically. They like to play those little head games with you. So be careful and watch your back. Because they can turn on you in a second.
2007-01-11 16:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a matter of fact, he does have a problem- its called stalking. Seek legal help to prevent him from harming you. He seems to have a problem accepting responsibility for his own actions, and he puts the blame on other people. Stay away from him before he becomes violent toward you again.
2007-01-11 16:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by dkiller88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly, you know he still wants you. He cant accept your ok with being alone or might be looking in another direction, and he has nothing going for himself that might attract a new woman. Stay at it the way you are and eventually he'll move on.
2007-01-11 16:27:18 · answer #4 · answered by Chocolate_Tai_69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's the possessive type, won't let you go easily because he knows he'l have trouble finding another sucker (sorry, I had a bloke like this) and yes he is so great and has been even greater in some previous existence. You have to be blunt and let him know that it's definately OVER, or he'll hang on forever.
2007-01-11 16:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by pansi1951 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the 1 still talking to him so why not just stop speaking with him. If he shows up at your job have security escort him out. I am sure he will get the point
2007-01-11 16:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he is and some self esteem ones too.Loose him girl before he pulls u down with him.Then it will be near impossible to get back your dignity.
2007-01-11 16:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by pretty in pink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order if you are tired of him
2007-01-11 16:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by ms.pink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds mental and wants to drive you mental too... :D
2007-01-11 16:26:15 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he problably still wants you
2007-01-11 16:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by SexyMami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋