would you?????take them back if the cheated????

Question

please help me

Answer 1

Let the song be heard and get their resonse about you and how you feel about and then decide....
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Answer 2

It depends on how much you care for the person and how bad was the cheating. There's the saying once a cheater always a cheater but then again everyone deserves second chances. If you really love the person and are able to overcome your feelings about them cheating, then yes I would say take them back but after numerous apologies. If you really don't care about the person, then I wouldn't advise you take them back because it would be unfair to both of you.

Answer 3

Take this from me. I have been down this road on both sides more then once. There is no light at the end of this tunnel I'm sorry to say!! Even if you love her or him again it will always be an issue of trust. And it should be!! The biggest problem is not the ones who didn't do the cheating its the ones who did. They know they didn't and wont love you as much as they should or they would have never done it. Put yourself in there place, would you do this to some you love or even liked. NO WAY!! Sorry Dude!

Answer 4

Honestly; I would not. If it happens once, it will happen again. There's unfortunately something missing in the relationship if cheating going no. That's the first thing to figure out. Then work on things from there. Knowing is half the battle. If you really can't come up with anything on your side and the other person either doesn't communicate things etc...it's time to go =(

Answer 5

Really depends on a lot of factors. If I felt like I was really giving 100% to the relationship, then it would hard to forgive. However, if I had let my partner down, that may be why he chose to go elsewhere? Like I said, there are many reasons for cheating and one of them is simply feeling unwanted. Take a long hard look at your own situation.

Answer 6

My answer to you is going to make me look stupid...
But I had cheated on my boyfriend who I love soooo much, and I really have no answer on why I did it! If you love him maybe you should give him another chance... just tell him if he has any intention on doing it again, then it's over... sometimes people do things that is not them at all... I know from experience and it sucks! Just don't always blame and accuse him for cheating later on if you are going to give him another chance, unless you know for sure he is cheating again! Because it will cause plenty of more problems, and if you do accuse him alot of cheating and hes not, then he'll want to leave you.

Answer 7

It depends on you can you handle it there is no wrong or wright in this situation it's just a matter of grasping the truth she cheated or he and letting go and being able to move on with that in your past

so can you if you can and really love her that bad then why not go for it but remember it is us who make our own mistakes and not everyone else or god or anyone else we try to blame it on..

So good luck my friend and hope over ally you choose what you want the most..

Answer 8

One year ago, I would have said a definite
NO!!!", but I was placed in the situation and I did take him back. Depends on the reason why he/she cheated, and the level of your relationship. Also depends on if you feel like you can forgive because if you can't, your distrust of the person will eventually ruin the relationship.

Answer 9

Of course not. If someone cheated on you, then they don't love you as much as they say they do. No one who hurts you is worth your time. If they cheat on you once, they'll do it again and it'll only break your heart once more and make you look like a fool. Go get yourself a girl that will treat you right.

Answer 10

if you take her or him back ( you wrote the so I'm not sure) you will always be paranoid that they've done it again. You'll become a jeolous freak. And anyways you teach people how to treat you so if you take your partner back then they know if they do it again all they have to do is baby talk you and you'll take them back. I don't ever see happy endings when poeple cheat. if you decide to stay I hope you prove me wrong.

Answer 11

this is only a question you can answer. Trust is very difficult to repair. And there will be triggers that reoccur over and over again. And it also depends on their stance. Are they doing everything they can to help you and support you overcoming the trust issues? Their life has to become an open book. Complete honesty.