Im friends with this guy more than a friend but he has a girlfriend. And yes, I would never try anything while hes dating this girl. But even hes talking to me saying hes having doubts about her, so Im wondering if the two of them are going to break up, so that when they do end the relationship I can have a go at him. But Im not going to tell him how I feel unless he's single. Im just wondering how long u think this relationship is going to last if hes already having doubts?
2007-01-11 08:11:50 · 11 answers · asked by J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No don't ask him he will feel pressured. This is what you do scope out the girlfriend when they are together. Is she a bytch, whiny, or anything like that. If she is I would say it will last one-two months. If it takes longer no matter what happens you don't tell him. If he flirts with you and touchs you when he doesn't have to he likes you. After they break up tell him. That is my advice but If you want tell him that is what my bff did and she is now going out with the guy. Everybody is different.
2007-01-11 08:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by irishxprincess1027131211 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since, I don't know the nature & the complexity of his "doubts about his gf", it's not easy to predict how long his relationship w/ his gf will last or whether they will work out their differences. As for u, YOU DID THE RIGHT THING by not interfering into their relationship or encouraging their break-up.
MY SUGGESTION: If they will ever break-up, that doesn't mean he will be automatically yours since you don't know how he feels toward you other than just a friend or sometimes guys only look into their relationships w/ their female friends as their little sisters. Yes, that sounds strange, but guys often look at their female friends as their little sisters since if they don't have sister figures at home. Now, I don't know if that is the case in his situation. That's why men & women rarely can be friends, they can be co-workers, business partners, classmates but NOT FRIENDS. Here is the strategy to win him:
1st. Find out if their relationship will end any time soon.
2nd. Find out if he feels the same way to u as u do to him.
3rd. If he does, then ur in luck.
4th. If not, & u still want him, then seduce him in any ways that u can(express your feeling toward him, buy him gifts, seduce w/ lusts when he's drunk).
5th. Make sure, u don't let any females drawn or have an influence onto him.
6th. Don't let him out of your sight.
Good luck on persuing your love!!
2007-01-11 16:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.....this is an awkward situation but something you can TRY to work to your advantage. Chances are he's telling you his relationship problems you could put the idea in his head he MIGHT be better off without her. Since he has doubts. When he DOES become single be there for him go to a movie something that all friends do and slowly work your feelings into conversations. Like after a movie or a night out as friends tell him "these past few" BLAH BLAH what ever ya'll did "have been really nice i really enjoy your company etc. etc. " and just feel out his response if he seems to be open to your romantic triggers let him know you have feelings for him. IF he dont respond in a romantic way then you haven't COMPLETELY opened yourself up and setting yourself up to fall.
2007-01-11 16:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by ag2588101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no telling because it depends on what he's doubting. Typically, in instances like this the relationship doesn't work out. Anyway, I think you should tell him how you feel because what happens if you never get the opportunity and he feels the same way about you?
2007-01-11 16:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by J L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well jb use your better judgment and just let it be and find some one else because you never know what is going to happen and that is something to think about ok
2007-01-11 16:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by harold g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion it to let him know that if they were to break up you want to be next in line
2007-01-11 16:15:30 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through the same thiong..well going i kissed her and everything was well with her for that night only..after that she said was confused and didnt like me like that..so since then we do act a little different..get my point
2007-01-11 16:16:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF I WAS YOU I WOULD GIVE HIM A HINT ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS TOWARDS HIM BEFORE YOU LOSE HIM. MAYBE HE FEELS THE SAME WAY ABOUT YOU.GIVE HIM A HINT OR JUST TALK TO HIM AND LET HIM KNOW THE WAY YOU FEEL TOWARDS HIM.
2007-01-11 16:19:21 · answer #8 · answered by JIMMY L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will be yours by the time I finish this turkey sandwich.
2007-01-11 16:15:43 · answer #9 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think they will break up if he trully loves her, and if they don't, please don't break them apart.
if he's taken he's taken!!
2007-01-11 16:17:22 · answer #10 · answered by The Isht! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋