2007-01-11 08:10:48 · 27 answers · asked by sweet_journey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The fact that he is a divorced father of two shouldnt matter. What matters is how you two get along and what you both have in common. Never look at what this person has or doesnt have. Because there will be things about someone that your probably going to look at as a problem...dont. Just go with him and if you give him a chance and you find that he is a great guy then you are going to look past the children. Just give him a chance and dont listen to people who might make you second guess! It is your life, not theirs. Be your own judge.
2007-01-11 08:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by Amber S 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would never date a divorced father with 2 kids, cuz I am totally straight.
2007-01-11 08:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not ignore that he DOES could watch his "P's and Q's" as we communicate. The courts will watch each flow he makes and the ex can use this adverse to him. If he's performing the way that you assert then you definitely also favor to appreciate that like you stated.... it really is a lengthy tiring procedure. i might want to in spite of the undeniable fact that stand your floor. let him comprehend beforehand that you care about him (and clarify to what degree) then tell him that you're proud to be involded with such an staggering guy that loves him childrens the way that he looks to, it really is all to uncommon (ego advance even no matter if it really is real) Then tell him that you is basically no longer givin the chilly shoulder anytime he's in a nasty mood or anytime he appears like. Ask him what he needs from you and then tell him what you anticipate from him. And if you're prepared to lower back off alittle inorder for him to get this treated, then tell him so. the final analysis is that those are literally not your little ones and IF this were to flow added then you definitely might want to have a position on thier lifes. you want to make your position kown now basically in case.
2016-12-29 03:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by benyard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have and yes I am. My previous relationship, the father did have two kids. It didn't last because he was in it for the wrong reaons: paycheck/housekeeping/nanny. Plus, he WANTED to be the one in charge. The man I'm dating now has more then two kids and he's a great person! I can't imagine being without him. He's more mature and his kids actually are oldern than preschool so that's kind of a plus; the others were not.
2007-01-11 08:16:13 · answer #4 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely YES! To me there is a sexiness in a father who has kids and takes care of them. Besides loving kids, you can also have a lot of fun doing things family style. Any woman that wouldn't date a man with kids wouldn't be a very good candidate for marriage either.Would you date a woman with kids?
2007-01-11 08:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if outside of the divorce and kids, he provided everything i wanted in a potential man. Might also be a good idea to make sure that there's no drama between him and the ex wife. That's a really nasty situation to get involved in.
2007-01-11 08:14:19 · answer #6 · answered by J L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course, if there weren't any major issues from the divorce and the guy wasn't a jerk. Divorcee with kids is not like a personality type or anything.
2007-01-11 08:17:23 · answer #7 · answered by Lissa P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a guy ... so I personally would NOT ... but I see no reason why kids should get in the way of a relationship. My wife had a son when we met.
Try Parents without Partners.
2007-01-11 08:16:12 · answer #8 · answered by kentata 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if he and his ex wife have a civil relationship. If there is bickering and fighting, adding another person just makes for problems--for you. My co worker married a man with a child and a psycho ex-wife, and they get dragged into court at least once a month for the most absurd things!
2007-01-11 08:17:25 · answer #9 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I would ,just because he made a mistake once and married the wrong lady,he shouldn't be punish,not having a real love life. If you date him,it doesn't mean you and him ,will hit it off.If you do fall for each other, it won't matter if he has children,as long you and him spend the rest of your life together.Children grow up,and leave home after awhile,but you will have each other for life. .
2007-01-11 08:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋