The person is thinking about it. And please don't say just wait, Im already heartbroken, cause I love this guy no matter what. ( KNOW I love him, so please don't ask me if Im sure I love him.)
2007-01-11 08:08:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means they are not that interested, and they're not mature enough to be honest with you, or they're afraid they will hurt your feelings.
Sorry, but true!
2007-01-11 08:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by P_P_K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can tell you what, you cannot MAKE someone love you, and more over, you can't make someone go out with you.
So find something else to do with your time while you waste perfectly good time on this relationship that this guy wants to put on hold.
You shouldn't put your life on hold for someone to make a decision, when the answer is RIGHT THERE in his mind already. If I told someone "I don't know, I'll think about it," that means I have NEVER thought about it in the first place, and there isn't a REAL attraction between us, otherwise I am sure the thought would have crossed my mind, and a clear YES or NO would have be decided.
That is just how I feel, take what you like from this statement.
2007-01-11 08:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by djkoolaide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there !!!!
We really can not say this person is or not interested, the person may just have cold feet.
You should stop though and have a little me time , try to see what is it that you are lacking in your life that you feel you love this guy no matter what !!!
We should love those who love us as well, do not set yourself up for heartache. YOu can not force anyone to love you, it does not work out this way.
If you do not want to wait, then have a heartfelt talk with him, but go prepared for any answer. If he tells you something you do not want to hear, ask him why, and to that reply, if he does not feel pushed to a corner, listen and respect it. Don't try to force him. You would be fooling yourself.
We should always love God above everything, love ourselves after that, because if you do not love yourself how can you love someone else ?
We should respect ourselves as well, find our own self value, you are immportant , never forget that.
Wishing you mental and spiritual clarity
Love light and peace
2007-01-11 08:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rachel, your answer is on the question: "I dont know, let me think about it" You probably caught him completely off guard, and he thought you were just good friends and now he is all confused... Yes, that can happen to guys too.
He pretty much doesnt think of you that way, he only likes you as a friend but he is trying to find the nicest way to break your heart.
You should just send him a note, email or txt and tell him to forget about it. You need to move on before you scary him away. Friendship is better than nothing
2007-01-11 08:13:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait. Everybody knows that "I'll think about it" is code for "No, but I'm trying to let you down easy here, so work with me and get the hint already". So you see, it doesn't matter if you're sure you love him, because he is not interested. Move on.
2007-01-11 08:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was anyone else around when you asked? Id say its a pretty bad sign, otherwise he would have said yes right away. Its like a marriage proposal, waiting time doesnt seem that romantic.
2007-01-11 08:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's is really nothing you can do but wait. Smothering him wouldn't be something you want to do. Give him time and space. He may come around sooner than you think.
2007-01-11 08:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by Cherri88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is one of two things; either they aren't interested (ouch! but truthful) OR they may have plans already that weekend.
2007-01-11 08:13:43 · answer #8 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he means NO and does not want to go out w/ you.So don't waist your time on him):
2007-01-11 08:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by broken heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i guess the only thing you can do is give him some time to think about it, and hope for the best.
2007-01-11 08:12:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋