i've fallen in love with my husband's cousin...i know its wrong but i cant help it..he also loves me a lot ,i expressed my feelings 2 him,we dont have any sexual relations,we r just emotionally envolved...he stays in other city so we hardly meet each other..we just talk on phone..if my husband comes 2 know bout dis he'll kill me...we've promised each other tat we'll always be in our limits but is it wrong 2 think about him and talk 2 him sometimes...i dont know whether its love or just an infatuation...but i've never felt like dis before for anybody else..plz answer seriously
2007-01-11 08:07:44 · 4 answers · asked by sharone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion, you either need to stop doing this or tell your husband how you feel, leave your husband and be with the guy. There is no reason why your husband has to get hurt, and the longer it goes on the more hurt your husband will be if he finds out. Sounds like your marriage is lacking some communication, if you and your husband are not emotionally attached and you need to go else where for that.
The choice would have to be either work out your marriage, or leave. Doing both in my opinion is just not right.
2007-01-11 08:14:12 · answer #1 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor leave your husband and find the one you love you weren't put on this earth to be miserable i mean honestly yeah your married but the thing is if found someone who you can truly love then maybe the one you have isn't the one for you just because it's there dosent mean it's perfect so uhmm i say just take proper per-cautions and leave him trust me if you really mean what you say then you will be much happier..
Caution You better be sure that this is the truth what you say..
for if not you life will haunt you and you will never be able to live down this mistake...
2007-01-11 16:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by rm4real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imm tellin ur husband cuz I kno who u r!
2007-01-11 16:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by UdOnTkNoWmE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have sex with him and enjoy both worlds. it's to short of a life to do otherwise.
2007-01-11 16:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋