there's this guy ive been dating 4 close 2 a yr. we're still not official (i know, it's ignorant), but recently i became busy w/skool, n now he's busy running a business. it's hard 2 get in touch w/him, but i know 4 a fact he's busy cus we have a fam friend who has his profession n it is a busy job. we havent talked 4 a while only cus we're busy. should i move on or just work on bein patient? he told me he really does like me n wants 2 be w/me, so i dont know wat 2 do. i dont know if he's lost interest or what. HELP!
2007-01-11 08:00:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Clarify if you are a commited couple. If not, then date others. Don't limit yourself if he's not willing to committ (especially after a year). Be sure to tell him that you are going to see other people, too. Maybe it will wake him up a bit, but if not, you will know your significance.
2007-01-11 08:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by Yumyum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I'm curious about what kind of "skool" you're in and how much older this guy is that you. It sounds like he's just been taking advantage of you. How can he go out with you for a whole year and not consider you his girlfriend? You're right, the guy's just ignorant. He's a user. Forget about him.
2007-01-11 16:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still pick up the phone and call him to find out what is going on. However, if you are not an "official" couple and he hasn't said that you are, move on with your life.
2007-01-11 16:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient.
2007-01-11 16:29:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋