Ok, I honestly love my girlfriend, I do.
But I can't help but want to have sex with other girls. I don't want to date them...I just want to have sex.
But I don't want to break up with my girlfriend. I want to be with her. But the thoughts won't stop. I am not a bad looking guy and I get text messages from former lovers and friends that want to do the duty. I never have cheated on her, but I'm afraid that one day I'll slip off my firm stance and break her heart.
I can't stop thinkin about other girls! Whats wrong with me?!
2007-01-11 07:56:22 · 19 answers · asked by U Luv It 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My parents have been happily married for 30 years. I am 25 years old and I have been sexually active for 11 years. I think I might be addicted to sex, because when I don't have sex with my girlfriend, I like to watch pornography....ugh....I feel so dirty.
2007-01-11 08:05:28 · update #1
if you like her then stick with her.
nothin wrong with wanting to do other women.. but the bottom line is you shouldnt actually follow through with that though if you are in a commited relationship. and dont want to risk loosing the one you really want//have and love over a one night stand
2007-01-11 08:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by jake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want the best of both world... "Your cake and eat it too" Doesn't always work that way..Its normal to be attracted to more than one girl as is the same for women...and at times the mind wanders to places where it shouldn't... but that's where it should stop.
If you truly love this girl your with then try focusing on her and the good things about her...forget the other girls..
But if you can't be faithful because of your urges..then you should truly let this one go... Don't be selfish and keep her hanging... because one day its gonna bite you in the ***..
So think twice before you make a wrong decision.
2007-01-11 08:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...kinda bad but understandable. Been in that situation too & after being broken up with my ex for a long while (he left me/I'm a girl) I realized that I wanted to have sex with other guys/mess around because I felt trapped in my relationship despite my love for him. Almost went through with cheating many times.
So the REAL question is " Are you REALLY happy with her? Or do you have some sort of resentment towards her in any way?" Think about it...I mean REALLY think! Took me months to figure that out. All I thought about that time was having sex with toher guys
2007-01-11 08:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by pkbabe87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, do you love your girlfriend or are you IN LOVE with your girlfriend? I don't think you're ready for a relationship based of commitment. You should play the field but if you do, tell your girlfriend about it. Don't cheat on her just say that you want to mess around with other girls. Some girls are ok with this. you simply want to soil your wild oats! There's nothing wrong with you. If you cheat on her, you are evil...
2007-01-11 08:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. You should start looking into escort services. That might be right up your alley. Ha ha ha! You don't have to break up with your girlfriend. Unless you are in a monogamous relationship, then you really aren't obligated to her. You should sleep around, but make it clear to your girlfriend that that's the deal. She can either accept it and stay, or go.
2007-01-11 08:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude its only natural for a guy to feel that way. i'm pretty sure all guys do. the thing is that with me and my boyfriend when he had those tendencies at least he talked to me about it, maybe you can talk to your girlfriend about it and both of you guys figure out another way for you guys to have sex, that makes you want more from her and not look for other females. the hard part is telling her but at least you honest and she should give you kudos on that, and you haven't cheated yet. plus this will make her think about how she can interest you more in bed.
2007-01-11 08:02:49 · answer #6 · answered by Dory Ian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to be rude but I think your-selfish.
Unless your girl is cool with it I don't think you can have your cake and it. Its either one or the other.
If your not really to settle down with one girl then its not worth breaking her heart. I understand you love and you don't want to hurt her but seriously you need to choose. I'm sure it sucks feeling helpless but unless you know what's best plz don't cheat on your girl.
Maybe you should try talking about it with you girlfriend. Tell her whats been going on inside that head of yours.
Maybe she can help you make your decision.
2007-01-11 08:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by Jackie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young and you are a male.
Also, you probably were raised in a household without two parents and never had a proper male role model to show you how to act in a comitted relationship.
Break up with your girlfriend and date around with many girls.
Use protection.
2007-01-11 08:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good job maintaining your self control. Like has been said, these feelings are just part of being a guy.
2007-01-11 08:04:59 · answer #9 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you really are a sex addict or you are not in love as much as you think?
2007-01-11 08:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋