Girls (& guys) i need help with this situation....?

Question

well, u see,i'm in 8th grd (don't say i'm too yung, becuz i kno & w/e, i just need help) there is this girl who i really love a lot...and i think she could like me back. she often wants to talk to me and start conversation, which is not wat she'd do with any otha guy because she is self-concious and w/e....she has secrets about me that she won't say, but the secrets r disguised (i figured it out)....she also in a way (not a "wrong" way) wants to like touch me and stuff, becuz often she makes unessesary, not bad, contact with me (like my hands and stuff, or if she pushes me).......also, recently she made something for me that she wants me to keep forever......girls....do u think she likes me? gimmie advice? help me?

Answer 1

she likes you. you should make the first move, i bet she'll say yes =D

Answer 2

It sounds like she does like you back. And even if you both like each other sooo sooo much and become a couple for the next year even, and you feel like it would be the end of the world if you lost each other, I bet five bucks she won't be the last girlfriend you have because you ARE young.

Don't take that the wrong way, I'm speaking from experience. I went through the same thing when I was your age. I'm not saying don't date her or whatever, I'm just saying keep your eyes open.

You shouldn't let one person cloud your mind so much that you miss what's going on in the rest of the world, no matter what age you are. That's infatuation, not love. When I was your age I thought the same thing, that I knew better than everyone else because I was mature for my age and I thought I was in love and all that. I thought "they don't know what they're talking about, this is different what we have, I know what I'm doing..." And it turned out they were all right.

Love grows over time, it's a bond that develops between two people. The only way that happens is spending time together, creating memories that will last, enjoying each other's company, having a good time together, being each other's best friend, being there for each other. That's what love is.

The only problem with your age is that you will both go through so much growing up, so many changes over the next ten years or so, that by the time you are old enough to get married you will both be so much different than you were in 8th grade. Your views of the world will have changed, your goals in life will be a little different, your priorities will be different. You will know so much more than you do right now. Not just about the world around you, but most importantly about yourself.

I'm not saying you're too young to fall in love. I'm just saying that you don't know what falling in love feels like yet. I can tell by what you said. "this girl who i really love a lot...and i think she could like me back." That isn't love, that's infatuation, and there is a big difference. Now that we have that straightened out...

Ok, you're infatuated with this girl. From what you have told us, I would say she likes you back. It sounds to me like she's flirting with you. If she knows your secrets and she's still cool with you, that sounds like a good start. Don't focus on whether or not she's the girl you're gonna be with for the rest of your life, that's a long ways away at this point. Just worry about the now. If you two like hanging together then hang together, have fun. Concentrate on being the best male friend she's ever had. That is how you will win her heart. Be her best friend. If it's meant to be then you two will be bester and bester friends the more time that goes on, and that's where true love grows. Not that bester is a real word, but you know what I mean. Your bond will get stronger over time as you get closer and closer to each other. Then at some point you reach a closeness with her, a place in her heart that none of her girlfriends can touch and at that point it is really hard and painful for her if you remove yourself from that part of her heart. So just know that if you really want to be in that part of her heart, you better be careful in there. That stuff's fragile business and if you break anything in there it's going to hurt her an awful lot.

And whether you guys live happily ever after in the end or not, always keep this in mind: Breakups happen every day and no one has ever died from a broken heart. There will be times in your life that you think your heart couldn't possibly be any more broken, and you think you'll never get over it. But after a while you do. Yeah it sucks and it hurts while your heart's broken, but you won't die from it and you will heal. Later on you'll look back at the scars and be reminded of the valuble life lessons they taught you and you'll know it was all worth it.

Answer 3

She do like you. But don't expect much..there are some girls who are so close to a boy like you and just treat them as a brother or a real friend. Just keep it the way she'd give her respects to you. She found you different from other boys that's why she only talks to you or in someway. Just let the day go and keep it going. Be rational about it and just be with her through times she needed you the most. Who knows? it will develop into something magical.

Answer 4

I stay contained in the south, and boys are truly diverse right here (i have lived in a good number of states and 2 international locations, too). he's too shy to make yet another flow, so in case you extremely pick him, i might want to straight away let him comprehend (deliver him a be conscious, walk as a lot as him and ask if there's a great time for him to communicate, etc.). there is no longer some thing incorrect with a lady making the first flow; in reality, in my journey, maximum adult men like it :) :D good success! :D

Answer 5

i think she does. ask her out sweetie, what's the worse that can happen that she says no. so what at elast u were brave enough to ask. i know is hard and ur probably a litle scare thats normal, but if u realy like her dont let shyness keep u from been with the girl u like and she might like u back why not.. good luck sweetie hope everything goes good. about the young dont worry about it. im 20 now but i've been in ur shoes.

Answer 6

she may really like your as a friend, because that's how i treat my best guy friend (i'm also in 8th grade). but there is a GREAT possiblitie that she does like you. start playing truth or dare and when she picks truth that's a great time to ask her a question when she HAS to answer truthfully. or, let her come to you. the guys don't always have to make the move.

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Answer 7

I think you can fall in love at any age. I think there are certain people in life that you just click with and just get. Trust me it happened to me at 13. If you find someone then do everything you can to keep them in your life even if it's just as a friend. Yes I think she's into you. Be yourself and be truthful about how you feel.

Answer 8

I know you don't want to hear this, but you are too young, and so is she. I don't know what sort of game she's playing, but you'd be better off concentrating on your studies than getting involved with girls at your age. It won't work out, trust me.

Answer 9

First off. Sure. She may have a crush on you. Sure seems like 8th gradeness crushing. Haha. But um, sorry, but I doubt you're in love with her. it's rather difficult to fall in love with someone without knowing them insideout. Love is a strong strong word, just as hate is. You have a CRUSH on her. It's not love, just lust. But go for it, I'm sure she likes you.

Answer 10

Yes, she likes you. It's VERY obvious.

Do you like her?

If you do, girls want the guy to make the first move.

Answer 11

Lord YES, she likes ya.
It sounds like she's going out of her way to let you know!