I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years, but the other night we were having a discussion about our future together and he told me that last year he was planning on asking me to marry him, but then he changed his mind. He says it will probably happen some day and that he loves me as much as ever, but is this true? Does someone really decide they want to marry some one and then change their mind, but still love the person just as much? Any help or suggestions would be appreciated! Thanks!
2007-01-11 07:42:05 · 8 answers · asked by Courtney A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot to mention, I am 25 years old, my boyfriend is 21.
2007-01-11 07:52:29 · update #1
I'm sure you're boyfriend does still love you, even more if fact as he said. It is possible that he may not feel ready to be married. Everyone becomes ready for this at different times. If you are worried, it something else, which I can assure you it isn't, then talk to him. If he didn't plan on marrying you I doubt he ever would have brought up that he at one point intended to propose. Hang in there honey, in due time everything will happen. It's best to let things take there natural course. When he is ready you'll become his fiance and then everything will fly by. Take your time and enjoy your love life as is. Hope this helps.
2007-01-11 07:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by akr_86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he still loves you. guys have a tendency to be a bit confused, they can say one thing but mean another. he's most likely just rethinking the situation and it doesn't mean that he'll love you anymore or any less, be happy that you gotta man who loves you and wants to be with you even if its not to marry you. and the time will come when he is really ready and you are too. don't worry be happy that you have a man, and one that admits to loving you, there are pleanty of guys out there that are even scared to say the words "I LOVE YOU".
2007-01-11 07:51:12 · answer #2 · answered by Dory Ian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. Think positive. If he loves you then he does. He changed his mind because he wants to marry you but is scared to say it because he doesnt know if youd feel trapped down or not. If I rele like a girl oved him. I wouldnt say wed be married because i dont want my partner to leave me because he didnt want to be strapped down. Maybe hes thinkin of your feelings
2007-01-11 07:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by Jasmineh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmmm i think it might be possible maybe he does love u and he wanted to marry u but then he realized he wasnt ready yet. doenst mean he doesnt love u imena he still with u isn't he. so just give him time what's the rush.
2007-01-11 07:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical male commitment phobia... Quite common.
2007-01-11 07:46:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait patiently, and it will come clear if he really means it or if he does'nt mean it. He might have met another woman who has taken his fancy.
2007-01-11 07:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by Shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, relax and enjoy what you have now. don't worry about your furture with him at the moment. if he asks you to marry him then that's when you answer "yes" or "no" but if he doesn't, don't worry, you'll stress if you worry. JUST ENJOY WHAT YOU HAVE NOW.
2007-01-11 07:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DIDN'T SAY YOUR AGE, IF YOUR BOTH STILL IN SCHOOL. THAT CAN MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE. THINK IF HE WASN'T INTO YOU, HE'D BE GONE BY NOW. SOUNDS LIKE A KEEPER TO ME.
2007-01-11 07:46:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋