I'm planning on meeting my gf one day at a wrestling tourney. I have seen pictures and she has seen me in pictures, but I know that pictures aren't everything. I worry that she will look at me, and break up with me because of how fat I look :'(. Although, I am who I am, and she said that no matter what I look like, she will still love me... How can I be so sure!?
2007-01-11 07:40:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how on earth can you date someone you have not met?
2007-01-11 07:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't put too much faith into what you have going with this girl. You're not dating her and she's not your girlfriend if you haven't met in real life, I'm sorry to say. There is so much you're missing on finding out if you're compatible or not - things you cannot tell from email, talking on the phone, or pictures. Take many, many steps back and don't let your heart get ahead of your head on this one.
Good luck when you do meet her and if she doesn't like you because of the way you look, then she's not someone you'd want to be with anyone.
I'd recommend not getting this into someone in the future until you meet them in person. I've talked to guys online that I thought were perfect for me and it was the complete opposite when we met in person. People can pretend to be anything they want, but when you meet in real life, you often find out that the person isn't anything at all like you imagined.
2007-01-11 08:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because.....................
She's already fallen in love with your HEART.
That's probably the best thing about online dating. You really can't do anything but talk...so you are more or less forced to communicate, and that's the key to any relationship. As long as you're both being honest with each other, you have grown to know each other very well.
Take her at her word, don't worry, and look forward to it!
2007-01-11 07:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically, you aren't dating if you haven't gone on a date. So, to date a woman you haven't met is impossible.
Otherwise, your appearance shouldn't matter too much...but that insecurity is what'll get you. Women like confidence.
2007-01-11 07:47:14 · answer #4 · answered by Gray 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly man, you probably cant be sure. true she may still love you..but she could still hit you with the dreaded "i love you but i can only see you as a friend" thing. be secure in the relationship you to have built though, but protect your best interest. i guess you'd have to ask yourself..if you saw her and she was far-less attractive than her pictures, would you still be with her???
2007-01-11 07:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by king.8307 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patience until you meet her and lets see how it does. If she wants to stay with you, great! if not, its her LOSS!
2007-01-11 07:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by MissGal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she might be the fat one with makeup on lol
2007-01-11 07:45:45 · answer #7 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how on earth can you date someone you have not met?
Seriously!
...good luck.
2007-01-11 07:45:15 · answer #8 · answered by miss Kapitan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welll you just a dumb assssss
2007-01-11 07:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by kendrickhotgirl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋