everyone is right. there is nothing that i can do except to move out because my boyfriend does not want me anymore. thank you for all your responses and helpful advices. i will start packing my stuff and leave. inspite of this pain. i don't really want to but i have no choice. but what do i do or can i do to get over him. inspite of hurtful things he has said... i can't get myself to be angry at him and i feel like everything was all my fault. but i don't want to love him anymore and yet i keep thinking that his socks on the floor are so cute....though they irritated me at one point... now i'm gonna miss them.and i can still smell his cologne in the room and i'm so sad because i won't smell it anymore. and i'm so afraid i will never hear his voice again. i dont want to feel this way.
2007-01-11 07:35:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At the end you always remember the good bits, they overshadow the reality. You always blame yourself. Me n me fella used to argue all the time. It was his fault. He is a good lad, just lazy and irresponsible. When he moved out i blamed myself for a couple of days, then realised it wasn't me. I still loved him but wasn't going to put up with his s**t. I picked myself up, found strength and thought 'ill show you' It took about three week before he regretted it. Now he knows which side his bread is buttered. Don't cling on to him, its unattractive, Prove to him you can go on. Even if you feel like crap, make the effort, put on a bit of mascara and tight jeans. If it was meant to be he will be back. A man likes a strong woman.
2007-01-11 08:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by KATIE K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh hun,
you will not feel like this forever. it will take time but you will get over it. Force yourself to start dating again. The first few dates will probably leave you feeling a bit empty because you'll be thinking of your ex but after a while you will get back into the swing of things.
Whatever you do, keep your dignity and give yourself the time to heal.
have a make over if you feel that will help you feel better about yourself and then get out there!!!
Good luck babe
xx
2007-01-11 07:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by Chey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hiya, poor you i know you must be feeling like crap at the moment and i bet all you ever think about is him but i promise you in time you will feel so much better and eventually you will be able to move on and one day you will meet someone special who truely does deserve you. i think the best thing for you at the moment is to just enjoy being single and have fun going out with your friends, your friends are exactly what you need at the moment and i bet you will have some great nights out with the girlies and before you know it your broken heart will be fixed, goodluck, it will take alittle while but you will get there x
2007-01-11 11:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by materialgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT GIVE IN you are telling yourself all the reasons why you want to stay instead of focusing on all the reasons why you need to leave!!!! You are only prolonging the pain, leave the hurt behind focus on his bad points and you will see he just isnt worth it!You deserve better and eventually you will see his true colours "a disrespectful pig!"
2007-01-11 07:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by arrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no easy way of getting over someone but it is not impossible so u`ve gotta want to get over him for you to be over him. you cannot keep thinking about the things u like about him coz it would make it harder. time is a healer
2007-01-11 08:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by snowflakes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok! gpo round a mates hire a stupid film talk evrytin over and slag him off think of all the things taht used to annoy u bout him! AND ITS HIS LOSS NOT URZ!!!!!!!! oh and plenty of chocolates it always helps! thats how i got ova my bf a month ago is tll feel for him bt only wen im doin things we used to do 2geva ull get used to it kk! ((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs 4 mavie)))))))))))))))))) xxx
2007-01-11 07:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by pwincess_blodzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get another one,then you will have a choice.
2007-01-11 07:43:12 · answer #7 · answered by tugboat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get over him..........and meet new boys!
2007-01-11 07:46:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋