how can i tell if my mom is cheating on my dad?

Question

my mom has been known to cheat on other men how can i tell if she is cheating on my dad and dont tell me its not any of mt bizz becuz it is!!! Help Please

Answer 1

just study the way she acts around dad and every1 else
secret phone calls
goes out for long periods of time and says oh im going to the store and the store only takes a few minutes to get what is needed and come back
ask to hang out with her more if she says some BS excuse ( you are always wanting to come with me )

Answer 2

why are you asking? there are no definite "signs" to watch for, but there are ways to tell. i hesitate to enlighten you on this subject because, YES, IT REALLY IS NOT YOUR BUSINESS!! what makes you think that it is? if you prefer the company of your father and your parents are divorced, then go live with him. don't serve as a spy for your father because that only leads to trouble down the line for all of you. if you mom is "cheating" as you put it, then there is obviously trouble in the marriage. it's up to the adults or married couple to figure out on their own. outside factors, even "children" of the couple involved, serve no other purpose than to cloud the issues at hand. let them work it out amongst themselves. don't judge either parent. it's not your place. you need to let things go that you have no control over. your mother and father love you unconditionally, and you should feel the same way. how would you feel if your mom was dead, or in a hospital, and incapable of reaching out and hugging you or kissing you again? how would you feel if she weren't in your life any longer? if that is your goal, then you need to distance yourself from her immediately and quit torturing her. if you think you're "helping" her by nosing into her personal business, you're very mistaken. you need to talk to a professional about that. sorry to be so preachy, but this is life. get used to it.

Answer 3

Have someone follow her, or listen to her phone calls.

As far as I am concerned it is partly her business and partly not. Yes her mother is a grown woman and can do what she wants, but it is also affecting this child emotionally. Take it from me, I caught my mom having an affair at 2 different times and it tore me up inside having this burden and knowing what she was doing to my stepfather, a man that worshiped her and gave her everything and raised his stepkids as his own and he didn't deserve it. Eventually my dad caught her on his own, but I wish I had told him myself sooner. No one deserves to be cheated on ever!!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

If you guys have a good relationship, be upfront with her and ask her. If she's cheated with other men, does your dad know? And if he does, and he chooses to stick around, then in reality its his choice. But if this will ultimately affect your relationship with her, then you need to speak with her.

Answer 5

Come on now its so easy follow her when you think she is then if she is tell dad right away but be very sure that you think she is and get pictures to its not a fun thing to do but do it good luck.

Answer 6

wow thats beat all tha hell up!she must be a step mom cause if she wasn't your dad would already know her past in that case sh!t will hit tha fan soon enough . there's nothing wrong with your dad coming home early one day.hint hint

Answer 7

this really is between your mom and dad. It seems you are looking for something to be wrong. Its always easy to find the negative when you look for it.

Answer 8

Your Dad is a lot happier Just joking

Answer 9

im not sure depands if she is goign out often without resoans and that or geting phones calls alot which she seems to hide from you i kinda knwo this cois this is how my gf cheated on me

Answer 10

if your mom is coming home late and claims thyat she is working late thats how you know. another reason is when she is not doing some of the things she used to do.