There's this girl at work that I kind of felt may be interested in me but I never really thought she'd be into a guy like me until she instant messaged asking if I'm going to our company's Christmas party.
I briefly paused, then replied "yep" like a complete moron and she said "great, we can talk then".
Now, of course, being the low self-esteem kinda guy that I am, having never had a girl-friend right up to this date, I felt a sense of doubt that she was expecting me to ask her to the party.
2 days later, at the party she asked if I came to the party with anyone. At this point I felt like maybe she is interested after all.
Weeks later and I've still not made a move because a) she's like, the prettiest girl in the office and b) even if I ask her on a date (like to a movie or something), the weather here is currently really awful and it may kill the mood. Don't know what to do. You reckon she likes me? Should I make a move? Should I wait for better weather (it's cold/windy atm)?
2007-01-11 07:15:58 · 5 answers · asked by forcedalias 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bad weather is the perfect time to stay in for an evening in front of the fire with a nice glass of wine
2007-01-11 07:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put yourself down I'm sure you're a nice guy. So go for it. talk to her, ask her out. You'll never know until you take that chance. You guys might be perfect for each other and you might have a really good time together. It sounds like she has some interest in you or she wouldn't have ask you if you went to the party with anyone. Good luck! :)
2007-01-11 15:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by ~Holls~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're looking for excuses to avoid the potential let-down of rejection. Just go for it, seriously. If she's still showing interest weeks later, you've got a good chance. And cold weather just makes you walk closer together outside - hardly a mood killer. :D
2007-01-11 15:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by dagorath1123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u keep on waiting u will end up with no one, all she can say is no, and if she is interested she wont wait forever. Remember, just because u have low self esteem doesnt mean she wont like you.
2007-01-11 15:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by Dale S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OPEN UP YOUR EYES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! See likes you, go for it
2007-01-11 15:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by shorty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋