i often get drawn into a confrontation or have to avoid the situation depending on the circumstances. This has been a pattern I have found for years. I dont have any clever glib answers and would sooner just ripp them apart which I have done. I know this come into the area of assertiveness and I am probably a passive aggressive type. There must be alot of information on this subject and places to go for help. I am sick of being victimized by bullies and set up to either avoid or fight.
2007-01-11 07:10:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Did anyone in your history abuse drugs or alcohol? That is a common way to become passive aggressive. If so, go to an al-anon meeting, they will help you free with their experiences, and may be able to lead you to various therapy (probably group) experiences.
Good luck, and don't give up, a better, assertive life is out there waiting for you!
2007-01-11 07:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by purplepartygirrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enrol in a self-assertive course. Try new interests away from your usual enviroment. Maybe some volunteer work?
2007-01-11 16:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by Thia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to start to keep in your mind that : ''Misery Loves Company''
Unconsciously and unknowingly, this is the main root of all abusive things in this world, emotionally or physically.
2007-01-12 05:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked where you can find info on dealing with abusive people?
The answer is simple, you can get info from here, now piss off
2007-01-12 06:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by Bluebird 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have it from abusive family. Transfer, don't rehabilitate. Lawyer, children's advocate etc. but 'trial lawyer' would be best.
2007-01-11 15:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the pub mike tyson uses
2007-01-11 16:23:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
victim support
2007-01-11 15:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by mishnbong 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the police
2007-01-11 15:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by mikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋