norms and culture dictates what is moral and what is not. i believe that not all cultures are right.
i dont see anything wrong with premarital sex as long as you do it with the one you really love and the one that really loves you, unconditionally, the person whom u wanna spend the rest of your life with.
"what is important is that u dont harm anyone or anybody and yourself as well"
that is what my faith is telling me, not on what people/culture say.
what are your views?
2007-01-11 07:09:54 · 5 answers · asked by wheew 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For purpose of self and common good there are laws and norms we have to abide, reasons/intelligence helps us to understand this norms, in understanding, its easier to help ourselves to comply. You need to understand very well the meaning of sex and marriage, to be able to understand why premarital sex is wrong. You can also ask yourself, despite the liberal premarital sex in our age, and abundant contraceptives /abortion for more freedom with sex, why so much frustrations and broken marriages?
There is simply more to relationship than sex!!! For relationship to be long lasting this factors needs to be explored discovered and enriched. Passion satisfaction in premarital sex, blunt this possibilities, and cloud reality, which will only be discovered after marriage.
2007-01-12 02:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by victor k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you that premarital sex is very important. I think two people who love each other should have sex at least once before marriage to determine if they can have a good "sexual" relationship. If they wait for marriage, and then they have sex - if they find that there is no "spark" in their relationship, then they will suffer very badly. I know this from personal experience of my relatives who were in arranged marriages.
2007-01-11 15:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going to get a ton of different answers b/c like you said, diff. cultures and religions impress different values concerning that.........you have used your own discretion, that is all that should matter.....
2007-01-11 15:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by just me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god forgive all
so bonk away
2007-01-11 15:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you think is right.
2007-01-11 15:13:16 · answer #5 · answered by Jason Bourne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋