he keeps telling me he will get a divorce and he did try one time but she followed him and told him she would hurt herself and their two boys if he didnt go back yo her. i know i shouldnt be with him at all but i love him so much and i know he loves me. he has changed so much since this started, he stopped going to the bars and he sees and calls me alot more than he did before. i need to hear from an outsider what i should do!
2007-01-11 06:33:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get out of the relationship. I can tell you that from personal experience. If he truly wants to be with you than he will...and nothing will stop him. Give him space and see what happens. Are you really going to be his mistress forever? I know you love him but you need to put you first.
2007-01-11 06:37:59 · answer #1 · answered by skybelle24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would just leave him alone until he makes up his mind which one of you he wants for keeps. Most of the time the year will grow into 20 years or even more and he will still be with her. If he really loves you he will leave, but it's against God to break up a home. Distance between you will be the real test. If he still doesn't leave he really doesn't want to. There may a man out there fifty times better than he is just waiting for you. You have to give yourself the chance to meet him. I'll bet 99 % of men will not leave their family. Give yourself a chance to be really happy.
2007-01-11 14:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by Barbra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reminds me of the quote; If you love him, you will let him go, if he comes back to you, you were meant to be together, if he never comes back it was never meant to be.
Your relationship with this man really is not going anywhere while he is married. If you're happy with how things are, don't change anything. However, you'll need to "let him go" if you want things to change. If he truly wants to spend his life with you he will work on leaving his wife. Until that happens I'm sure that he will just be content with seeing you behind his wife's back.
Good luck to you!
2007-01-11 14:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by Mary R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll never leave her.
2007-01-11 15:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by chitowngal70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋