so i've been dating this guy for about 6 months, ever since the first time we've had sex he would "pull out" and always ejaculate on a towel or his boxers and not me unless I ask him to.....what does that mean? I never met a guy who has done that before.
2007-01-11 05:08:28 · 68 answers · asked by a1980 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im on the pill and don't want it in me but he won't do it ON me..
2007-01-11 05:17:14 · update #1
He's being polite. You should know that this method of birth control is not very effective. Get some condoms.
2007-01-11 05:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by Mom of Three 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well 6 months an dyour already having sex, theres nothing wrong with that at all, but the fact that he has to pull out to *** means you two arent using any condoms which 6 months is a really short time to not be using condoms but thats you, if a guy pulls out when cumming it means he dosent want to get you preganant thats good cuz its been a short time only months and you;ll dont need kids, so you should probalry strap it up and he will finish in you. think about it,
2007-01-11 05:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by brown_eyedgurl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He respects you and doesn't want to cover you in it? He is a clean guy?
I assume you are on the pill? He might just want to add the extra safety of not getting you pregnant by not ejaculating inside you?
If you are not on the pill you will probably end up pregnant even if he pulls out! Please be careful but enjoy sex it is wonderful.
Communicate with him your wants and needs and I am sure he will honor your request!
I just went back and read a few of you past questions, it seems your ex boyfriend was addicted to porn and shooting the load on the girl is the finish of all porn. I THINK YOU FOUND A GOOD GUY THAT ISN'T INTO PORN! He doesn't do it to you because he does not see it done! His ex's probably didn't like it done to them so he doesn't do it to you.
TELL HIM WHAT YOU WANT AND HE WILL DO IT ! ! ! Trust me!
2007-01-11 05:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many men, through their social conditioning, have the erred notion that not coming inside or near the genitals of their partners lowers their chance of getting a woman pregnant, Some men associate the vagina to motherhood and thus don't want to defile the sanctity of the myth. There may be many reasons for this conduct but if it does not directly interfere with your sex life in any way, enjoy what you do get and respect his prerogative.
2007-01-11 05:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just an unsafe way of maybe getting pregnant. He thinks that if he pulls out you won't get pregnant, but that is untrue a male has pre ejaculation that has sperms in it too so if the pre *** is in you he might as well just go all the way instead of pulling out or make him wear a condom - less mess for you
2007-01-11 05:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by allseriousnogames 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you plan on getting a shower immediately afterwards he is probably just trying to prevent a sticky situation. As it dries it starts to turn to turn to glue latching onto anything it comes in contact with.
But out of curiosity why are you asking us? If you're intimate with this guy shouldn't that be the kind of question that you can just ask him without making it sound like you're comparing him to other guys you've slept with?
2007-01-11 05:14:49 · answer #6 · answered by aiguyaiguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it could be that he doesn't want to get you pregnant but since you are on the pill you would think he would do on you if that is what you want. I think maybe you should ask him why he won't do it. That would be your best bet. Maybe he has a fetish or something, and doesn't like that. Maybe he thinks it is nasty. I really think you should just talk to him about it.
2007-01-11 05:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by krystaldarnell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never heard of that before
talk to him
more importantly, if you are on the pill,. why can't he c u m inside you?
rules never work well for sex, you guys should try a few different things, but usually full on penetration is the best way to c u m - deep and hard works for both of you
2007-01-11 05:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by bl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm young and most younger guys in highschool do that its basically to help prevent u from gettin pregnant if u dnt want him too pull out tell him to wear a condom
2007-01-11 05:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once again people are answering with out reading the question.
I am not certain why he is not willing to do it ON you. It sounds like you like to have it done, so try talking with him and letting him no that you don't mind (or prefer it). He may be worried that he will offend you.
2007-01-11 05:20:40 · answer #10 · answered by rcbricker33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said he will finish on you if you ask him to so just tell him you'd prefer that he did ON you rather than use a towel or his boxers.
99.9% of men would rather ON you than on anything else.
2007-01-11 07:15:29 · answer #11 · answered by RedEye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋