I am 34 years old fixing to be 35 end of may....I have a 8 yr old daughter named chantrella and a 11 month old son named brendin and at times, i want another baby and then other times, i think...am i crazy?! Do mothers feel like this??? If i did have another one, i would want to wait until my son is, at least 5 years old. I want a girl, as i want to name it kahlen beverly...my mother first name was beverly and she died last year at age 64 very suddenly.
2007-01-11 04:51:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
my fiancee says it is up to me...either way, he is fine with it as he works 6 days a week so it's me and the kids all day
2007-01-11 04:52:47 · update #1
I do not want one NOW when my son is only still a baby...i like my kids far apart in age....my daughter is like a little mommy to him
2007-01-11 04:57:23 · update #2
I pull my hair out at times and my kids 8 years apart....my daughter will be 9 in march
2007-01-11 05:01:10 · update #3
and it would be o.k. if it is another boy, i am jusy prefering a girl
2007-01-11 05:01:33 · update #4
I have two and I am ready to pull my hair out! My husband works normal hours five days a week and I would not want another one! I don't know what to tell you but your feeling is normal. Be sure you caould handle three before you bring another one in the world. By the way what if it end up being a boy?
2007-01-11 04:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by Diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Linda. I think your feelings are normal. I don't think that 35 is too old to have children. You do what you want and what you think you can handle. I think the name Kahlen in beautiful and giving her your moms name is very nice. I think its great that your husband supports your decision. I had my son 11 weeks ago and I already want another one. I had a brother and I cant imagine life with out one. My boyfriend has a girl from a previous marriage and he told me hes done. That's a 6 year gap between the two. That's a big age difference. I want another little one so my son will have someone close to him! Good luck I'm sure you will make the right choice!
2007-01-11 13:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by BOOTS! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's basically up to you. I think having children close together is better, at least in my family it worked out fine. My situation is a little different because my husband only works 2 or 3 days a week and I work (a real job) from my home office. Right now I'm 38 weeks pregnant with my 3rd and my "baby" is 20 months old. It's going to be a handful but worth it!
Good luck to you!
2007-01-11 12:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jen G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should wait until you find you another man, cause girl the one you be hacing now always be in jail and he shoulds like a looser. Find a man to support you, have you a baby, and for gods sake name it something normal not no black baby name!
2007-01-11 14:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want another child, i'd go ahead and get on with it. as i'm sure you know, pregnancies become more and more high risk the older you get, starting at 35...
2007-01-11 12:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by dixiegirl687 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are ready for another one... gimme a call... I'll be happy to help you produce another...
2007-01-11 13:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by jeep_man129 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋