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she is taking disadvantage of my husband s health iwant my husband back to me she is staying at mira road and wannts to come by aouto from my husbands money and even if i hate her she comes at home also what should i do to make her to go from our life

2007-01-11 04:31:17 · 26 answers · asked by mit 1 in Family & Relationships Family

26 answers

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2007-01-11 04:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You wrote "My husband is having affair".

It takes 2 to tango, so think twice, see a lawyer protect your interest talk to you husband tell him what you think of this. But do not call some one cheap, things happen that is life salvage all you can for the comfortable leaving, get on with your life.

You wrote, "she is taking disadvantage of my husband's health i wants to come by auto from my husbands money and even if i hate her she comes at home also what should i do to make her to go from our life".

How did it get this way so far, I think you mean, she need a car and want one from your husband to buy for her, so she can drive your husband to work...?

How is the health - car and work relationship fit in, are they partners (she is a staff your husband is her boss she works for him?).

It takes 2 to tango.

But you may have prevented it!!!

It may not be too late to salvage even your marriage. Try , Try hard , Try harder, use legal means and kind persuvations.

2007-01-11 05:20:16 · answer #2 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0 0

You can not won a battle by fighting. If you try to push her from your husband, she would come more closer. Do the followings -

1. Make friendship with her - at least she should think you as her friend.

2. Trap her in some bad situation

3. Kick her out.

4. If require, use power and some unethical ways. As for protecting on love nothing is really unethical.

5. If even then she does not learn - establish a relationship with her father and what ever you are loosing from your hubby recover from her father.

All the best.
Sorry in this forum its not possible to write more directly.

2007-01-11 04:41:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

You keep putting the blame on this woman as if your husband is an innocent victim of this woman. Dealing with her will be of no help at all. You have to deal in a very positive way with your husband. You have to let him know that if he continues to see this woman for what ever reason that you are not gonna tolerate this. If he continues to see her, then you have to do what you must and that is to leave him. No one should sit back and accept this kind of behaviour from their spouse, and I do not care what excuse he gives you. Your husband is probably in a moral struggle between what he knows is wrong. If you have any luck in saving your marriage you must use tough love on him and mean what you say or he will give in to his weak impulses and continue being with this woman. He is not only hurting you emotionally but he is also taking a risk of passing a sexual transmitted desease to you. Stand up for yourself. My best to you!

2007-01-11 05:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0 0

When you took your marriage vows, she was not present, and did not make any committment. If your husband is cheating, then it is his responsibility alone. Do not deal with her at all: Make it clear to your husband that he has to take responsibility, and that includes the responsibility not to give the appearance of cheating. This is about his keeping his vow. If he is not willing, then leave him- you certainly have grounds, in every state, and in the Bible as well.

If you are not sure that he is cheating, that may be a bit different. In that event, go to counseling with your husband- this lady should not be there, again because you never married her. Speak with a counselor who is all about integrity, because this is not about feelings, but about being clear on whether or not your husband keeps his vows, and is willing to make the effort to give an impression consistent with that discision- just as he would have to do in the workplace, or in many other settings. This is not about you. Do not let him put this on you at all! Many men have friends who are women, but do not give the appearance of choosing them over their wives, or of committing adultery with them. If he will be honest, then sit down in counseling, and agree to whatever changes are needed to make it work, and make it clear that she is not considered a party to your marriage at all. If not, go to court, and make sure that you do not feel a bit guilty about it. Especially if he has already cheated. In that case, if you have to leave him, do not feel bad. You will be doing the right thing. You will not be judged negatively by society. Next time, hopefully, you will find a man who will treat you right, and whom you will love.

2007-01-11 05:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by Asking&Receiving 3 · 0 0

From what you've reported you do not stay in Morocco and, more desirable to the point, divorce is suitable right here. you recognize what they say: at the same time as in Rome do because the Romans do. probable you stay someplace interior the U. S. or Canada the position divorce is suitable, as you recognize. It sounds to me as if you're utilising coming from Morocco as an excuse to stay with a guy who has a restraining order on him for harassing his ex-mistress! Are you loopy or what?? the basically problem preventing him from going decrease back to her is that restraining order. you have not any little ones. he's smitten by yet another woman. there is not something to mull over interior the priority...basically, you want to end your relationship with him. you're youthful adequate to commence over with some different person. all the perfect,

2016-10-17 00:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by manca 4 · 0 0

I say sit down and talk to your husband. If you still love him i would tell him that, make it apparent to him that he is the only one for you and that you want him to be with you and only you. As for the other woman in his life...give him the choice: a life with you, or a few months with her to spend his money and leave him broke and broken hearted. Tell him there is only two options, he can't have you back when she ends up a dead end. If you love your husband truely and can forgive him for cheating, make it irresistable have you and love yyou!

2007-01-11 07:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by Panda Pooh 1 · 0 0

Divorce

2007-01-11 04:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by Nathan 2 · 0 0

if your husband is the one encouraging her, than u can't do a thing to get her out of your life, unless u are willing to confront her, and get mad, but no physical abuse, or threats, as she could have u arrested if she is that mean a person. just tell her to get out of his life, and hope it works. don't allow her in your home,meet her at the door and tell her she is not welcome. get a restraining order on her, so she won't be able to come to the house. if he is in poor health, and his mental state is questionable, get guardianship over him, so u will be in control of the money.

2007-01-11 04:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0 0

In these days it is common thing and it is happening due to some misunderstanding too. First of all go to the reality and also find out your mistake that what is not in you have for him so he will come back soon. Also be patent about her too so she understand you and go back to her way.

2007-01-11 13:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by Alexius T 2 · 0 0

well if u think ur husband is havin an affair .. then check him not the girl....... stop pointing fingers at others ...... if he is havin an extra marital affair.. i dont think u shud put up with him.. tell him to end all the silly stuff.. and if he doesnt u need to take a stand

2007-01-12 08:11:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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