This situation is really unique. I met my girlfriend online. She was from a small town in Texas and Im from Miami. I started talking to her and we really hit it off. I called her everyday for 4 months straight and we talked for hours everyday. I was a non-active firefighter in BSO county because I was 17, but I was training. I had a good job as a Customer Service Team Leader, supervising 24 other people. I was also going to a good University to become a doctor. I gave that up for her, to go be with her in Texas. She started to change a little bit and we started fighting a lot. It goes from the best moment of my life to hell and back again. My girlfriend has had a hard life, she was abused physically by her mother and sexually by her father, and all her past relationships ended in the guy hitting her or cheating on her. I love her so much, we even have a baby together. Even so, we started having fights and she left to live with her aunt. Should I go back, beg her, or wait?
2007-01-11 04:29:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the love of a person who is precious to you is the worst thing anyone in this world could lose. do whatever it takes, but let her know that even while you are sacrificing your dignity for her you find pride in the fact that you are man enough to fight for the love of a special person.
2007-01-11 04:40:59 · answer #1 · answered by IisIam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow this i dont think anybody can help u with. is only up 2 u. are u sure u want to spend ur life with someone so problematic and i dont mean this with disrespect is just that people who were abused have a lot of phsychological problems. if u do then go for it. figth for what u want. ofcourse u need to talk to her. i mean u need to know wjhy she left if is cuz of the problem tell her thet can be fixed but if is cuz she doesnt love u anymore then thats a different story i dont think there;s anyting u cna do about that. but try i mean u have nothng to lose and if u really love her then go get her. i wish u the best of luck!!!!!
2007-01-11 12:41:43 · answer #2 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god your life is a nightmare. Are you sure you are not sleeping?
This girl has too many problems. You can follow two ways
1. Continue your life and just be a friend with her. Keep only the memory of your love, wait for her reaction.
2.Beg her, stay with her, try to support her, devote your life with her.
Good luck!
2007-01-11 12:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by ....................... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While she is over her aunt's house, try to talk it out over the phone. Maybe you both jump into this situation too quick to figure out if this is what you both want. If you really love her and want to help her through her problems, give her some time and work it out only if its something you both want to do.
2007-01-11 12:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by littlez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should wait for her but not for long time. I she didnot come back convince her to come back. I think she will come back.
Good Luck
2007-01-11 12:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should wait for a while and then go and not beg but tell her how much she means to you.
2007-01-11 12:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by drew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋