reason is a boy whom i love
2007-01-11 04:22:57 · 19 answers · asked by Srishti 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
in your age i also had these affairs.....but dont waste your gud times..if that guy dont see u the same way. be friendly with everyone..enjoy ur days...
2007-01-11 04:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by elvisjohn 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I know that this is not the answer you are anticipating, but you are still very young. Something that is much more important for you at this time is working towards creating more opportunities for yourself through doing well in school and keeping diligent with the things (i.e. your studies) that will prove to be beneficial for you in the long run. Love is something that will come and go--If you are serious about this boy you love, and if he loves you-- he will want the same for you. If you are still wanting to spend time with this boy rather than studying -than you may inadvertently effect your future opportunities within the academic realm. If you are still not convinced about the benefits of a good education, and the importance of good marks in grade school- than do some research on google to educate yourself on the consequences of life without academic opportunities that could have been gained from getting good marks in grade school. I hope this is not too harsh- I am only speaking from experience. Also, it is important to love yourself first. If you loved yourself first, you would realize that it is YOU that comes first before any other person. Do not let a boy or anyone for that matter, disrupt or limit your future opportunities. Good Luck! Hope this helped.
2007-01-11 12:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by OpenMinded 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes its understandable to fall in love but u must be in ur 11th or 12th std right.. this is the time wen ur career has to be more important.. it doesnt mean that u cant b with this guy but being in love is not the end.. u hav so many things to achieve and a career is in front of u.. it wouldnt do to shift ur priorities.. by the way is ur love one sided?? does he kno it? but no matter what happens do not forget that are almost an adult now, u cannot just let ur feelings drown ur priorities.. so buckle up and start studying.. jus make a time table for atleast 2 3 hrs a day so it wont b a burden all of a sudden, take control of ur emotions and remember that the time which is gone never comes back and usually there is no second chance.. later on there wil b enuf time for guys and love..
2007-01-11 13:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by menakshistar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur problem is not of concentration..but, that ur focus of concentration has shifted .. so, i can give u only 1 tip..i.e, when u open ur books dont think of your boyfriend.. forget that he exisits..
now, u will ask.. how do i forget? .. if this question occurs to u..then let me tell u ... u r a intelligent person.
the method of forgeting goes like this... dont try to forget.. or else u will end up remembering him more and more.. just start looking at the words in ur books.. try to understand their meanings.. i can tell u that the real reason is not ur boyfriend.. but, the real reason is that u dont find the content in ur book more attractive than ur boyfriend... anyways.. forget all these reasons coz, they wont help u study.. just focus on ur book.. if its not happening... take deep breaths and see ur breath going in and out.. now count 1 to 10 and then start to study.. (this is the ultimate guru mantra)...if still r not able to focus.. then count from 10 to 25.. keep increasing till u get focus.. once u get it ... beleive me.. it will become more attractive than ur boyfriend.. and once u start getting good marks... u will realise.. nothing can give u more satisfaction studying.. and it wil turn ur life upside down !
ps: remember the techniques i have given and never the reasons
i hope it works for u as it has been working for countless students worldwide.. if it works.. please help ur friends who are facing similar trouble..
may the good lord assist u in ur sinciere efforts
2007-01-11 14:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by sulaiman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u get up early morning and study.u should learn very car fully.the end of the day before sleep u should try to recollect Ur studied lea sons.if u should very careful in Ur class,definitely u should earn high marks
2007-01-13 06:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by safeena t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a big problem in India, because the society does not encourage bf/gf and also religion and caste problems. Better focus on studies.
2007-01-11 12:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by liketoaskq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good tht u r in love. but remember one thing, try to avoid thinking abt ur bf during studies. try to read for 1 hour but sincerely. if while reading some thoughts come in ur mind abt him then tell ur mind tht u want to read with full attention for atleast 1 hour then u will think of ur bf. likewise read constantly for few hours then take rest and think abt him. probably u r in 10th standard and i am older thn u. so as a big brother i advice u to do well in studies as well as in love. BUT STUDIES FIRST....
2007-01-11 13:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by deve_satu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look young girl, i would like to tell you only one thing, if you really love that boy and you really want that he also likes you then you must make yourself too good that he has no other choice than loving you and for this you have to give full attention to your studies. it will helpful for you to complete your love. as we say in Urdu.
Khudie ko kar buland itna ke har taqdeer se pehle
Khuda bandey se khud poochhey, bata teri raza kya hai
2007-01-11 12:45:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get used to surviving a major crush, or true love if u wanna cal it that but i doubt it. anyway, u gotta learn to handle it, or its gonna ruin ur life. start ignoring everything for a guy at that age and life's gonna blow up in ur face.
2007-01-11 12:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by implosion13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is normal for your age.Just, when you have to study focus on the books and after that you are free the whole day to think about him :)
2007-01-11 12:39:07 · answer #10 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look shrishti dear! ur unknown 2 me! & even i! so i can hardly tell u anything!
but its true the symtoms of love r not getting proper sleep etc....!
why r u spoiling ur career b'cuz of tat boy?who never even thought bout ur good! who wuz selfish! t'morrow if he goes wid some other gurl! wat r u gonna do then! ur career will be alreaddy spoiled! i recommend u to foget him!
2007-01-12 12:01:28 · answer #11 · answered by ashkia k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋