Well it started off as friends wit me and this boi and then we got closer and he asked me out and i said yes...so like the third week we went out together he said " i luv u" i couldnt say it bacc and he got kinda mad but its onlie because i dont know if its true so then i jus changed the subject...and right now hes not talkin to me and i jus dont know wat to do...i realli need some help....
2007-01-11 04:20:02 · 12 answers · asked by Baby Blue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because someone says they love you does not mean that they do. They could just be saying it because they figure thats what you want to hear . And he loves you but now won't talk to you? That should answer your question right there!
2007-01-11 04:25:48 · answer #1 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time, and not to be dissing on anybody, but most of the time, women use the word Love too openly. You should only say I love you to someone if you really believe it and know it in your heart to be true. I can never tell if anybody means it or not, but I assume not as to avoid getting hurt. If you find any other way to do it, let me know. If you like him alot right now, maybe you will grow to love him later, so say it back, but only so he can hear you say it, that will keep you two together for long enough to see if you do in fact love him.
2007-01-11 12:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by Adrian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess it's how you feel about him too. You also said that you've been friends with him for a while now and so maybe he's felt that way about you for a while. Maybe you should talk to him and ask him to take it a little slower than that because it's just a little to fast and you want to think about it before you do or say anything about love. Ask him to just give you time. Your aren't ready fro that serious of a relationship but you still want to date so don't break-up with him and make sure he knows that's not what your trying to do.
2007-01-11 12:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by Wolf_28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be confused, i THOUGHT i was in love once, or he could really love you, only he know's for sure. I think love is there, it's always there, it just takes time to find, he may have just found it first(found the reasons why he loves you). Tell him that your not sure, you definatly like him, but when/if you tell him you want to KNOW you mean it, and it's just too soon to know right now.
2007-01-11 12:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl i have had that problem too well ask him do he really mean it and could he see himself being wit you for a long time and you can tell if he means it because he will tell you why he thinks or knows that he loves you and gurl i need tha points so hit me up as best answer
2007-01-11 12:25:56 · answer #5 · answered by tinkaboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love takes longer than 3 weeks to develop. Dump him. He doesn't know what he's talking about.
2007-01-11 12:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by Flying man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these are very strong words and they should be said only if they are true and if the person means them.So when you'll be sure in your feelings then tell him.Call him and explain this to him.Just tell him that if he really loves you, like he told you than he should gain your love with his actions and care for you!
2007-01-11 12:25:23 · answer #7 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, judging by the way your speaking, im guessing that you're not that old. and it seems like this is just a boy-girl going out thing instead of actual dating. so no, chances are, he doesnt mean it.
2007-01-11 12:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by ohyes_itsbekah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they...maybe they dont..
All the same, be a good girl and stay focused, dont waste your love, your future is bright!
2007-01-11 12:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by manpo2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you really need to work on the spelling thing. i know this is the internet, but please.
secondly, he probably doesn't love you if he left because you won't say it back yet.
2007-01-11 12:25:43 · answer #10 · answered by brown_iyed_grrl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋