Can anyone help me??

Question

I am in love with a guy but i cant see him very often because he has finished school.We dont talk often either because we dont know each other very well.But i have become friend with two friends of his.Last year at school he was behind me and his friends were making signs about me and he was saying to stop it and then they pushed him on me.What does this mean??What should i do to make him fall in love with me?I know his number and where he lives.I can do anything for him.I am desperate.I really want this guy.Please help me

I forgot to say that his friend gave me his number but he doesnt know that i have it so i cant call him.I found his address at our school yearbook

Answer 1

OK, you can't really be in love with him if she don't know him very well - that doesn't work, see?

What you're feeling is lust, and I suggest you do not act on it. Find somebody else who you can talk too and get to know - then your chances of finding real love are much increased and you're not lusting after some guy who you don't know. You can't "make" people fall in love with you, especially if love isn't what you're feeling in the first place.

And you're not. I know you're not.

(Obviously since you're set on thinking you're in love you won't listen to this answer as much as you will the answers stating that you should "get out there girlfriend and get yo' man!" It's your choice, but I am replying to "can anyone help me?" and I'm telling you what you need to know. If you don't realise it now, you will later on - that you will find out, at least)

Answer 2

First of all you cannot be in love with a guy that you don't even know. That is called infatuation but not love. Second if the guy really liked you he would be pursuing you. You cannot make someone fall in love with you. You need to go on with your life and if he gets a hold of you then great, get to know him better and if not you have lost nothing. You do not need to define yourself by having a guy or someone to love you. Learn to be ok with yourself first and the rest will come in time.

Answer 3

First of all, don't be desperate. If it's meant to be, it will be. You should try and make a point to talk to him and maybe go hang out with him. See if he feels the same way you do. Sometimes it's a bad thing when he has finished school before you because he may have experiences you don't like or might be jealous of. If you think you can handle this, then go for it. But please don't be heartbroken if it doesn't work out. There are tons of guys out there and one who is perfect for you! : )

Answer 4

Well first thing to remember is that you cannot make some one fall in love. The second thing is to remember that a good healthy relationship is about respect and as such you can not go into any relationship desperate for that person.

So the advice is to approach him and talk with him but try not to throw yourself at him. Talk and see where things go.

Answer 5

as ur saying that u know him a little talk to him or if u feel shy tell his 2 friends that u love him and they may help u if they are good

Answer 6

you sound like a stalker. how can you be in love with someone you dont know? how did you get his number and address? leave it alone before you get your feelings hurt.

Answer 7

If you really have his number, I recommend you to call him out and tell him the truth that you really want him.

Answer 8

Call him and talk to him Get things going.

Answer 9

you can't make someone fall in love with you, it just has to happen. Call him. what have you got to lose? NOTHING. take a chance.

Answer 10

You sound exactly like me, When you find out what to do please let me know. Its a terrible feeling and I feel sorry for you cause I know exactly how it feels.