Im 17 my boyfriend is 19 every thursday night he goes to a bar i cant go cause im only 17 he gets so drunk he calls me sluring words and stuff i hate him going out without me! Last time he went to the bar and i was sick my best friends called me and said he was dancing with another girl! I called him he said it was to get his friend a peace of *** and i do understand that cuz he is 20 and is a virgin but i dont really trust him alot like i used to its getting better but i dunno what to do any help???
2007-01-11 03:17:50 · 5 answers · asked by candypants 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best thing about your problem is that you still have time to cut it off from the root.
Get out of that relationship. If that is how he treats you now, imagine how it would be in the future if the two of you get married.
Sweetie, there are many good guys out there who will treat you as a lady, and give you inconditional love and respect. Obviously, your BF not only doesn't love you and disrespect you, but he doesn't love and respect himself.
Best wishes.
2007-01-11 03:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by David G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with him going out without you, everyone needs to get away once in a while and hang with friends. Even dancing with someone while they are out is okay, to a certain extent. There has to be trust and if things are getting better and you want to work this out try and stick with it for a while longer. However if you feel that you can't trust him and this keeps happening leave him you are very young there will be other men out there.
2007-01-11 11:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by freyja5683 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why put yourself through that? I would leave him and find someone you can trust. He doesnt need to go out, get drunk, and call you names. You can do better. He needs to learn a lesson. I would dump him in a heartbeat.
2007-01-11 11:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by yournotalone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both still young and once you get the age when you can go out you'll be the same way. Let him have his fun, if not then he will start regreting being with you.
2007-01-11 11:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd sit down and talk with him, let him know how you feel. If things don't change in about a month, get rid of him...
2007-01-11 11:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by beau0021 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋