a 19yrs old boy ask me out, im 36yrs old, should i go. what can we do together?
2007-01-11 03:12:53 · 19 answers · asked by sexiblakass 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whether younger is better is really a question only you can answer. If you are young at heart and want an ever-ready partner, you may find that he's just what you need. If his youth means that you find him immature, with little in common or to talk about, he's not for you. Older men are usually more experienced sexually, but this all depends on the guy. If you like him, or even if you don't know that yet, it couldn't hurt to go out on a date. If it doesn't work out, you don't have to keep seeing him. One advantage to dating a younger guy is that you have the upper hand. Most of them will be so intrigued with your maturity and think you are so 'cool', that you can pretty much make all the decisions. Go to a club, see a movie or play. If you might be uncomfortable being in public with your young date, have him over for home-cooking and a DVD.
2007-01-11 03:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there, you have an interesting question. The answer depends on what you want to do. If you want to have a sexual relationship, then go for it. If you want to flirt, then go for it. But if you want to have a long lasting lover relationship, then he is out of the picture. You also wanted to know what can you do together, well there are plenty of things to do in the bed. I think that a 19 year old boy will love that. I will!!!
Bye bye
Good luck!
2007-01-11 03:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by Ravie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally like to stick with my own age group. But, everyone is different. You might find out you have nothing in common and he is way too immature for you. I dated a 19 year old when I was 21 and this is how I felt. He might be lots of fun. To each his own.
2007-01-11 03:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by peeps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a 21 year old I would guess that relationship isn't too likely to go anywhere... he probably just wants to sleep with someone he sees as a Cougar. So you might as well kill 2 birds with 1 stone by fulfilling one of his fantasies at the same time as crossing "sleep with someone half my age" off of your "Things To Do Before I Die" list. ;)
2007-01-11 03:22:52 · answer #4 · answered by Jash13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok but remember a 19 year old guy might only last about 19 seconds.
2007-01-11 03:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if it is just for fun and really no strings attached i'd say go for it, but personally I would stick with someone my own age simply because they are experienced and more times than not know what you want
2007-01-11 03:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by 1982 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, go for it. There's nothing wrong with going out with him if you like him (and he pays). When I was 36, I got engaged to a 17 year old and I had the best two years of my life until she had an affair with her boss on me.
Don't pay attention to others, it's your life. If you like the guy, go out with him.
2007-01-11 03:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lifes short
live laugh love
do what you makes you smile before you go to sleep
and what makes u smile when you wake up
find out what you can do
whats the harm?
it doesnt work out
o well, better to no then to wonder
if it does tho
then you would be happy you gave it a chance
good luck!
follow your heart
2007-01-11 03:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by aww lovee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure! Do what you both decide on. There's movies, ice or roller skating, out to dinner, bowling, nightclubs (if he's of drinking age) , and whatever else any couple would do. Have fun!
2007-01-11 03:18:21 · answer #9 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u like this kid then i dont see the problem. age is just a number and hes obviously comfortable being around you and he likes your company. so its up to you.
a really good movie to watch about this kind of thing is
"Prime" with Uma Thurman its the best movie
2007-01-11 03:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by Destiny S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋