ok i know that i am olny in high school but i am like upset really bad. i went out with this dude at my school and he is cool i mean me and him had a lot in common but not everything was in common. i like to have fun in a diffrent type of way like do stuff that would probly get me into trouble or hurt but you know its fun. he is like trouble in a diffrent type of way i guess(he likes to do stuff on the computer) a lot you know maby anyways i try to get him to do more stuff you know to get out more but he dosent want to. and he says he loves me but hes always busy with a report you know or has to go do something when were on the phone so we cant talk that much and i hardly see him in school and all this is driving me crazyi need help this relationship did not work out but when it happens again i need to know what to do ok we going to try it again this summer i dont know but i need help.
2007-01-11 03:00:53 · 8 answers · asked by purplegrimreper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you realize that your last sentance contains 87 YES Eightyseven(?!?!!?) words? OMG if you talk to him the way you posed your questions no wonder you are having problems! Also try not using "you know" so much, if you use it that much when you are typing I can only imagine how much you use it in conversation.
2007-01-11 03:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by absynthian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you know the relationship is not going to work, but you and him are going to try it this summer?! What happens if you and him try it again and it does not work? It sounds like he is not really interested in a relationship to start with. Maybe he wants to finish school before he thinks of starting anything serious. Maybe you and him should consider being friends since he does not want to go out or do much of anything. It sounds crappy but it might be the best thing. You can find another guy , because there are plenty of guys out there. It is up to you what you decide to do however. So make sure when you make a decision that is the decision that you are comfortable with.
2007-01-11 03:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in high school, why rush?
It is better to have lots of male friends than one "Relationship"
Most people in High School that "Need" a relationship are running from something that they are not happy about in themselves. Relax and explore all of the different sides of yourself, allow yourself to become your own person first.
Peace!
2007-01-11 03:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically you have to decide if you can live with the differences between the two of you, or if being with someone like him will ultimately make you unhappy. It is unlikely that he will change, just as it would be equally hard for you to change and become like him!
2007-01-11 03:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it didnt work the first time what makes you think it'll work the 2nd time, hes more interested in his computer find a guy more interested in you
2007-01-11 03:07:15 · answer #5 · answered by Destiny S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know first and foremost, men are married with their jobs. He's just probably don't show much emotion or passion.
2007-01-11 03:05:06 · answer #6 · answered by Opas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
refuse to go back with him & dont give in thats the best i could tell you
2007-01-11 03:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm............. well you don't need him you want to need him/want him. um.........i really didn't get it because of the "you know" but that's fine. uh..... well i cant give you any tips.
i wish you the best of luck
ok bu bye
2007-01-11 03:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋