okay im 20 yrs. old and have never had a bf. I am talking to this guy and he seems really nice, but I want to get to know him as a friend first, but he says that if I take too long to decide if were gonna go out or not hell have to move on. What should I do?
2007-01-11 03:00:50 · 14 answers · asked by chikita4652 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
drop him, if he likes you that much then he will wait.
2007-01-11 03:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Dantheman 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie. Don't EVER let anyone force you to decide on something for which you are not ready, specially in a realtionship. If the guy really loves you, he can wait until you are ready.
I am amazed of the number of girls that finally are giving themselves respect. I applaud you. You are doing the right thing by getting to know a guy well, before going steady.
Be careful with men who are in a hurry to be with you, for they are most likely interested in your body than in you as a person.
I also applaud your parents for the way they brought you up.
2007-01-11 11:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by David G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to move on now. Why wait? Show him a little attitude. Girl, it's your life, you'll meet someone who wants to take time like you do. Don't let anyone rush you into anything. Good Luck.
2007-01-11 11:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Going out with him doesn't necessarily mean that you have to be "his" girlfriend. You can date, go out, have fun, and get to know him which will help develop your friendship. Let him take you out to dinner and a movie..what do you have to lose? Doesn't mean you have to sleep with him....or even invite him into your house...he can pick you up at your door, and drop you off at the end of your evening....don't even have to kiss him if your not comfortable with it. Good luck!
2007-01-11 11:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by Shelly B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he really had feelings for u, he would probably wait for u and not pressure u to be making up ur mind if ur gonna go out or not. i say u be the one to move on and just find somebody else. hes just trying to get in ur pants.
2007-01-11 11:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by oc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him and get to know him a little better just take it slow.And if don't like it that way then he isnt right for you.
2007-01-11 11:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by Shae H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok you re 20 you don`t want to die alone so just go out with him and give it a try if you don`t like him you can always brake up
2007-01-11 11:10:01 · answer #7 · answered by clair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out with him...you don't have to be intimate with him. There's nothing wrong with dating and kissing, just don't have sex until your ready, and DON'T let him pressure you into it. If he can't respect that, then he's not the guy for you.
2007-01-11 11:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he don't want to be ur friend then he can't be a BF. move on
2007-01-11 11:08:23 · answer #9 · answered by irishlady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him out then get to know him. get to know him before you say if you love him and then if you don't like him you can break up with him.
2007-01-11 11:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by i_love_rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him move on. If he's pushing you, he's not the right one for you, anyway.
2007-01-11 11:06:08 · answer #11 · answered by kiwi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋