It's not that I have never been asked out. The problem is Im living at home with the parents while I am attending my first couple years of college. (Im working on saving up enough to move out.) I dont want to blame anything on my parents, but they are extremly strict and dont allow me to even hang out with my friends that often. You know, the whole "while you live under this roof, you follow our rules". So I have no Idea how that would work if I tried dating.
" uh sorry, mommy says I cant go out this week." ???( I just dont think that would go down so well..)
2007-01-11 02:57:00 · 9 answers · asked by Americanized-Italian 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do plan on finishing college, no questions asked. So if that involves putting dating on the back burner, is that an ok thing to do or should I still try and make a stab at it?
2007-01-11 04:10:08 · update #1
Well, your education is important Hon. Not only to support yourself but it will give you satisfaction when you enter the workforce. It's good to be self sufficient. You are young yet and don't need to be in a hurry. Besides any guy with a head on his shoulders appreciates a woman who has it all together.Good relationships are worth waiting for. Good luck.
2007-01-11 03:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Tori M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay for starters the first two answer are rubbish and purely irrelavent and misleading..(can't you all go earn points elsewhere?)
To be honest there is nothing to panic about that at all cause there really is bo issue. Maybe you just are not ready for it..Thats quite unusual nowadays but also respectable because most people jump into relationships because of lust and seire not love. If you reaaally wanted to get into a relationship you would have already got into it without your parents consent.
Living with parents like that can be so frustrating and annoying to the extent that sometime you just want to be alone that you just go to your room and lock your self up. But as usual im gona say the conventional thing which is that they are doing this because they love you and dont want you to drift away into ruining your life like other people of your age which we see so often nowadays.
Moving out!! Do that when you really can handle all the pressure on your head because so far you have been dependent on your parents all along and this will be a big change..So think twice on your decisions and remember never diss your self because you can always know that there is someone in the world who has it worse than you and you are happy to be at least above that...
So i do hope this helped yeah..If you need anymore information or advice just type in your e-mail address and question when you pick this answer as your best answer.(IF)lol...
tc
2007-01-11 03:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by James 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 18??? A boyfriend is not a requirement for happiness in life, and an understanding boyfriend will probably help you "deal with" your parents. The guy who made the comment about "you are and adult now" is dead on accurate. Still, you should concentrate on school. I had lots of girlfriends, but I didn't meet the love of my life until I was 45 years old! If you are only 18 years old, you have YEARS to go before you even need to think about this. Stop worrying about it - if it happens it happens and if it doesn't it doesn't.
2007-01-11 03:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by Paul H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with setting your goals and going for them? Guys just mess everything up with there selfish ways.
Keep up doing what you are doing and when the time is right you will get one. Just keep that goal of yours to move out get your schooling done.
The tone you wrote in sounds like you do not want these goals anymore? You do not want to be moved out first nor get your schooling done first. If this is your choice then go get a b/f if you feel this will fulfill your life. I personally do not feel having a b/f will be positive for you right now. Then again I have teenagers to, and wish they had goals like you!
2007-01-11 03:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a problem. maybe you will find a guy that understands the situation and then you can introduce him to your parents and they will like him and they will let you go out with him. OH PS I love Italian women
2007-01-11 03:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by Mac H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll probably meet a few guys at college (unless you're studying to become a nun). so speak to your parents, promise to be responsible and be back by a curfew if they want. They'll ease up and you can get dating
2007-01-11 03:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by Girly girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just lie about where your going. Your an adult you can live your life now.
2007-01-11 03:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by MazdaMatt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find a boyfreind on the internet.
2007-01-11 03:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by mc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill them and dump the bodies. And then you can have the house.
2007-01-11 03:00:56 · answer #9 · answered by tombomber27 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋