my girlfreid asked me why my penis was so small I thought I was average at about 3" soft and 6 hard. when at the beach a 18yrd boy with his freind sat next to us and there penises where huge compaired to me I was shocked. My Girl said hi to them and one started to talk to her and got a hard on in the process and he must of been 8-9 hard my girl said he was big and I told her we should leave. on the way back she was talking about his size and why mine can not get that big what should I tell her
2007-01-11 02:55:53 · 14 answers · asked by 1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she loves you she would appreciate what you have to offer to her. There plenty girls out the r that will enjoy you.
~erica~
2007-01-11 03:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by i LuV b N mE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your woman that you are actually a little larger than average. According to everything I have ever read, 5.5 erect is average.
Also, apparently there are some guys who are show-ers, and those that are growers. I guess something like 80 percent are growers. I suppose I am. Your girlfriend should NOT be all about this. Set her straight. I doubt you will be able to do this, since she is so hung up on it. My guess is that she screws a dude with a huge dick at some point and it hurts her.
If you plan on sticking with her, then learn to give her oral and really learn how to push her buttons so that when you do get in, it is easy to make her come.
2007-01-11 11:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by Morty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
SAD, tell her that size doesnt really matter. Its the way you make her feel. Read some good books with illustrations or read in the internet about how to have a awesome foreplay and a good sex. Make her feel that she is a queen.. and you are her server! Give her what she wants in a good way.. play gentle and play ruff, ask her what she wants.
She will forget the size at once ! :P
or if she still wants to have the SIZE, **** her off.. there are more gals who can find in the world...
DONT WORRY BE HAPPY :)
2007-01-11 11:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by fitDEVIL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is asking why your penis is not or can not get that big she is an idiot. Yes, you are average, and average is wonderful. Do you know what you are doing? Is everyone happy after a sexual encounter with you? Then nothing is wrong.
Your GF is being thickheaded and rude. If she asks again tell her that your size is good for you and if she doesn't like it she is welcome to go else where for pleasure and companionship. (IE. you dump her because she is totally insensitive)
2007-01-11 11:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not do anything about the size of your member. It is genetics. Most women say that it isn't a matter of how big it is but how you use it.
Why aren't you able to make yours that large? Ask her why her breasts aren't as large as Dolly Parton's? If she isn't happy with you and your ability to please her, you better start looking around because, while a woman can get breast implants, there is nothing you can do about the size of your penis.
2007-01-11 11:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by Bud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't the size of the boat--but the motion of the ocean!! If you know how to pleasure her--it shouldn't matter how big you are or aren't. Just tell her next time she asks--why is your vagina so big--my penis is normal sized!!! I have had it both ways--a small penis to OMG--it doesn't matter, as long as an orgasm is in the making!!!
2007-01-11 11:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it's her fault your penis isn't bigger. That if she was more of a woman it would be 10 inches erect. Tell her that around other women, your penis is always 10 inches. Tell her she needs to work harder , "like a REAL women" to get your penis to it's full potential. That ought to shut her up.
2007-01-11 11:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by Count Acumen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6-6.5" is avg, from what I've read. Anyway, there is more to sex than just sticking it in. My ex-wife said she had someone with a big one, she said it hurt, and he really did nothing for her.
Are you her first one, she might be curious and think that is the way to go. Good partners = good sex.
2007-01-11 11:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by jude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her "it's not the size of the ship, but the motion of the ocean that matters". Then proceed to rock her boat real good.
2007-01-11 11:02:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, that if she wants bigger to go back... And if that is all she's interested in, dump her...
2007-01-11 11:00:34 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋