I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and it's going great. Problem is, I dreamed about his best friend -- about 5 times! I never had sexual dreams, though, just ones where he and I would flirt with each other. Do they mean anything?
2007-01-11 02:50:58 · 25 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about it. The subconscious is just a playground. As long as you don't act on any actual behavior in real life. Dream away it is all completely innocent.
2007-01-11 02:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by DeCaying_Roses 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...Perhaps that you may slightly fancy the guy. This doesnt mean that you are going to suddenly leave your boyfriend for his mate and dont feel guilty in any way! Your dreams are probably stimulated by the fact that you see him every now and then or because your boyfriend talks about him a fair bit. Its only if you start day dreaming about the guy that you want to start worrying. If its just the odd dream, there is no harm in it at all!
Goodluck*
2007-01-11 02:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by Chartlotte M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't control your dreams. I don't think this is a problem. I would even go so far as to say this is natural. Being that he is your boyfriend's best friend you probably spend a lot of time together. It is only natural that you would have dreams about him.
2007-01-11 02:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be sexual tension with the guy, or it may be that you feel you are lacking something in your current relationship. My exhusbands best friend and I still have sexual tension. It started when my marriage was in trouble. Though that may not be the case for you, it is reason to examine the relationship with your boyfriend. If all is well, then have at it - fantasies are great! (Maake sure that you aren't naming names in the heat of passion or you will have lots of explaining to do!)
2007-01-11 02:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by wendyhannan0130 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreaming about you and your boyfriend's best friend flirting is your subconcious mind telling you that you are attracted to him. The best idea is to ignore these dreams and move on. If you can't, the next step is up to you.
2007-01-11 02:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by BudLightRocks56954 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello =)
To quote Dr. Freud......"Usually a cigar is just a Cigar..."
Which means....things in dreams are usually meaningless.
You probably have some physical attraction to the man, and that's it. Nothing wrong with it. If you start spending a lot of waking time thinking about him, well, perhaps you need to think about your relationship with your boyfriend in a different light...
Otherwise....it's just a dream....
Namaste,
--Tom
2007-01-11 02:56:04 · answer #6 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dreams area all of your thoughts put together. Alll your thoughts are jumbled. I have had the same things happen to me lately. With these guys I barely talk to and I have a grat boyfriend. I don't really think much of it. Don't worry.
2007-01-11 02:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could mean something, but dreams are weird. I dreamt that all the floors were trampolines and a train came and took everyone away.
2007-01-11 02:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by Rosie aka Rosie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it means absolutely nothing! Don't think to much into it, its just a dream! Just be happy it was a good one!
2007-01-11 03:00:16 · answer #9 · answered by Chelsea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreams mean absolutely nothing. It's the brains way of coping with the day.
2007-01-11 02:54:26 · answer #10 · answered by nshappe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋