I had a boyfriend who cheated on me with his ex-fience on new years and lied to me telling me that he was with his friends. How i found ou was that he came clean to me. Im happy that he came and told me but cheating is cheating, right? but the best part is that I had the opertunity to cheat on him with a co-worker that day. But me being the person that i an decited not to because, as i told my ex when we met, i don't cheat because i wouldn't want someone cheating on me. And i've stuck by that rule throughout all of my relationships with guys, but as usual, they always end up cheating. So now im at home wishing that i did cheat. Now guys makes me want to cheat. Hey, mabe that should be my next question. Why men makes me want to cheat. This happened to me so much im confused. Mabe some one out there can help me answer this question, if u can frome a male's point of view.
2007-01-11 02:34:03 · 8 answers · asked by kgirl162001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not all blokes cheat just the bad ones do. sounds like you keep finding the bad ones. no you are right you dint cheat but you now wished you did dont go down to your ex bfs level good on you best of luck
2007-01-11 02:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad reality-
Men cheat because the have low self esteem and weakness of character.
Cheating is a deal breaker! That is a level of trust and commitment that is shattered by his bad and unacceptable behavior.
Unless you seek professional assistance to heal those deep wounds it is best to move one to a better person for you.
Your dignity and self respect keeps you ethical.
No one makes "YOU" do anything. Its all a choice, even if you choose to do nothing and accept this relationship.
Best wishes- I hope you find peace.
2007-01-11 02:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right hunny! If you cheat you will fall into the same mud as him, instead take a step back and leave him for someone better.
Once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-01-11 02:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by Jules Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shouldnt stick with him mainly not only did that happen but it was with his ex-fiance so.he probubally still has feelings for her , doesnt mean o you should go cheat maybe your just going for the wrong type of guy some are loyal and may check girls out and others hit on them and cheat on you but good luck .
2007-01-11 02:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by tabetha m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think alot of guys end up feeling like they are not needed or wanted at home. women seem to have a tendancy to back off a bit as far as sex and physical closeness. Alot of women are so easily put off sex by everyday stress and worry, and they don't realize,if he can't get it at home, he WILL get it somewhere. And I say again, HE WILL GO ELSEWEAR, If he can't feel desired at home. Don't get me wrong, there are a lot of S***-heads out there who will poke anything they can get naked, but it is worth a look around at home to see if you helped push him in that direction.
2007-01-11 02:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by sure_coughalot 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You obviously wanted to cheat, so next time cheat and see if it makes you feel better.
2007-01-11 02:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by sowhat 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
never cheat you will lose your moral code...if he cheat then it not a good man
2007-01-11 04:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by secret &trade 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe (to him) she wasn't as good as she thought!
2007-01-11 02:43:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋