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after geting termed for argueing with my fiance over pety cash,my dad took me in. i was looking for work in LI ny and couldn't so I went to the city nothin there went to jersey stayed with my fiance's mom&grandmother she couldn't keep me there to long so I went back to my dad cause i had no choice. The second I got there he said "no heat no money no food...you want food get a job and eat your own food."

2007-01-11 02:32:04 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships Family

12 answers

Sounds Neanderthal !!

2007-01-11 02:36:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You need to keep hunting for a job, you may want to carry a pocket dictionary with you when you go to fill out an application, you seem to have an issue with spelling. When you go job hunting, look the part, if you wear body jewelry remove it, except earrings, wear something conservative, wear your hair in a conservative manor, you want to impress an employer not your friends. There are a lot of jobs out there that may not pay that well but will at least allow you to eat, get any job for now then you can look for something better. You need to take responsibility for yourself, and quit depending on other people. I don't know how old you are but you have no alternative but to grow up now, and take your life in your own hands. You'll be better for it. Good luck.

2007-01-11 10:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by pughugger 2 · 0 0

Keep pounding the pavement. Find a job, any job. One that perferrably gives you at least one meal a day during your shift.

Sounds like you need to make certain responsibilites in your life and that means working!

Too many people are too picky about where they would work. It doesn't sound like you can be too picky at this point.

Visit the soup kitchens while hunting for a job.

2007-01-11 10:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1 0

It sounds to me like you should be grateful that he is letting you stay there. I would try to find a job as quick as I could. Go to restaurants they will hire just about anyone. It seems a little harsh that he won't let you have any heat. Cover up with lots of extra blankets and wear more clothes.

2007-01-11 10:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by darkchild39702 2 · 0 0

how old are you? maybe he wants you to be more responsible? I would tell him you are trying the best you can and just try harder at getting a job. If things don't get better, you should find a friend or other family member to stay with. Good luck.

2007-01-11 10:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by Noneyabusiness 4 · 1 0

Well how old are you? I'm assuming your an adult. He is right your an adult and it's your job to look out for yourself now so take his advice. Get a job and buy your own food.

2007-01-11 10:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by Lucinda M 3 · 0 0

i would call that harsh thing to do to your own flesh and blood.. Get a job and get out of there... is that the whole story you did not abuse your dad by coming back only when you are down and out and when you are flush you ignore him. just trying to understand still does not make it right.

2007-01-11 10:43:17 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 6 · 0 0

Sounds like you need to get out of there quick. Have you tried social services they have programs that could proably help you in your situation. It's a start. God Bless!

2007-01-11 10:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by momseekinganswers 2 · 0 0

No free lunches in life. Get a job.

2007-01-11 10:36:44 · answer #9 · answered by . 3 · 0 1

eek..
thats tough.
Have you tried talking to him?
Well, I guess you'll have to get a job...
good luck.

2007-01-11 10:37:02 · answer #10 · answered by miss Kapitan 5 · 0 0

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