People say get over them!! BUT they never seem to tell me how? I am in love with someone who is not in love with me. They've hurt me so much but I still want them and would give anything to have them. We are not talking because of things that have happened and I know i am definitely better off without them but how do i get over them when everything reminds me of how much i love them. Everyday life things that i cant just throw away! Please give me advice!!
2007-01-11 02:29:46 · 10 answers · asked by s_is_for_skye 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
best way to get over someone is with someone else. think of it this way, do you really want someone who doesnt like you? why settle? lets say you somehow convinced this person to date you, you wouldnt be happy b/c you cant change how they feel about you. you dont want someone who doesnt realize how cool you are. you want someone who knows what you've got to offer. get out there, someone else will come along better.
2007-01-11 02:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by kt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to really get over a person I think is building new memories without them...slowly the memories with them will fade. If you know your life is better without this person then focus on that. They must have seriously done you wrong and you shouldn't want that in your life. Actually you should remember and focus on the bad memories instead of the good ones–that will help. If there are everyday things that remind you then try to distance yourself from those things. Like for me–my ex was a country boy and country songs are the absolute worst to listen to when trying to get over someone. So, I've completely refused to listen to any country for a long time...and it's helped.
Trash photos if you have them, get rid of items in your closet if you have stuff from your ex, drive a different way to work/school, get back in touch with your true friends and start living life again and have fun!
2007-01-11 02:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by gdesigner 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am going thru the same thing, it has been 8 months since my girl left me. it still hurts at times and i know i will love her forever. what i try to do is think of the good times we had and know that you had a strong love at one time. some people never have it but at least you did. i hate it also when they say just get over it, because it does not work that way. you have to go live life and have fun. never be sad it is over just smile and be happy that you know what love is and how good it can be. wish you luck
2007-01-11 02:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by bone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well actually getting over the feeling for someone is really hard,just take it slow...time will decide when the wounds would be healed...Make yourself busy...if time will come that you will think just go on and also try to think why you have to let go your feelings for that person.
Im also is that kind of situation and believe me it will be more hard and painful if your getting over on someone whom you love and love you back but you have to separate each other ways because of religion and culture.
2007-01-11 02:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you think you now everything but in reality you don't. They hurt you deeply and you don't need it. Be kind with the people around you, even you disagree with them. Do stupid and crazy things in you're life. Many people do it just like you. Get out of the ordinary. You'll see the answer on your own.
2007-01-11 02:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by flyoverall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with your friends! sign up for a fitness class to get the stress, anger and sadness out of you. Get active and remember its your life only and you make what it is. Instead of focusing on him, put your head in a book or you school work ( if you are in school) You never really get over a love one, you learn to move on and then you think you are over him, but really your just learn to deal with your emotions. Life doesn't slow down when we want it to, so get out and do something for yourself
2007-01-11 02:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by jennisea04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep stay active clean work go out meet up with someone else its hard but i its life and everyone goes threw it...
2007-01-11 02:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by Jesenia O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-11 02:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love some one you will never for get the love you had ,but it will come easy for you to go on one day ,that's what life is about learner and growing ,life is what you make of it,,you will get over it ,,,but you don,t have to forget about it,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,peace out,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,..
2007-01-11 02:38:25 · answer #9 · answered by yome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look what this person did.
2007-01-11 02:47:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋