read my first question to find out what the lie is...
2007-01-11 01:43:21 · 17 answers · asked by xoxalannahxox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you lie to your boyfriend so he doesn't break up with you then you are taking free choice away from him.
Look at it this way: Do you want him to love you? If you lie to him and he stays with you then he is not loving you, but rather he is loving a false image of you that you are portraying.
If you tell the truth then maybe he will break up with you - but he deserves that choice. If he stays with you then you can be happy that he loves you for the real you.
2007-01-11 01:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by GenshiYagyu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly this is something you need to look inside yourself for. How do you honestly know he will break up with you? One lie always leads to another and can get worse. If you tell the truth the, then regardless of the results, at least you were honest. The lie may make things worse if you hide the truth.
2007-01-11 09:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can't find your first question so I have to wing it. Short answer is NO. A relationship built on lies has no foundation. Would you have more respect for someone who tells the truth or would rather find out a few years from now he is a liar????
2007-01-11 09:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by cruzinonline 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm more curious as to why you want your boyfriend to break up with you...other than the lie...
If you're simply unhappy in your relationship you should just break up with him...don't lie...whats the point?
2007-01-11 09:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by icingonthekake99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times
2007-01-11 09:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by psychopathic bi*ch. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol No it's not. The best thing to do is NOT to do what you feel you must lie about in the first place.
2007-01-11 09:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by color me blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty is the best and the only policy which works in a relationship and in life...u cud have him fr nw if u lie to him....but one day the truth will catch up with ou and the whole thing will blow in ur face!
2007-01-11 09:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by lilbit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing, it doesn't sound at all like you guys are broken up. You see each other everyday and still have sex. DUH, that is not broken up.
It is not a good thing to lie to someone you love. But it was totally wrong for you to sit on that guys lap and spank him. You were just asking to break up with your boyfriend.
I think you and your EX-boyfriend need to look up the meaning of broken up.
2007-01-11 09:52:55 · answer #8 · answered by DONNA M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. And it's not ok to do something you need to lie about either.
2007-01-11 09:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by tabithap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its never ok to lie and if he really loves you he will understand
2007-01-11 09:58:07 · answer #10 · answered by darkness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋