I mean if she loves you alot and being gentle now, are u sure she will remain the same if she marries u? If answer no, I can understand why, cos ppl change. But if yes, pls elaborate, really don't think true & forever love still exist anymore! Do U?
2007-01-11 01:35:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love isn't simple - when you're in a relationship with someone there are going to be times when it gets difficult and I think the reason people don't stay together for as long anymore is because they end things once it gets difficult. As you go through life and experience things you will change naturally, as will those around you, but if you're with someone you love who loves you, as long as you continue to make the effort and she does too, there's no reason why you can't be together forever! In the long run you may learn that you're not right for each other and thats that, but sometimes people change for the better so it could all work out well. The beauty of life is that we don't know whats coming so worry about the future when it comes!
2007-01-11 01:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by Error Child 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do! But only when both people are willing to try. It's not just a matter of the girl staying true but also the guy. People do change.. constantly.. because every experience you have stays with you and affects you in some way.
Really, even true love like .. the people who were married for 80 years and what not.. involves work. If you are both willing to work through all the issues then I think almost any relationship can work. If you are watching out for her, and she's watching out for you, you're both covered. I think that's why 80 years ago people stayed together. They worked things out and didnt just call it quits everytime it got too hard or they would have to compromise in a way that they lost something they wanted .. or just took an ego hit.. because it was expected. Now it's socially acceptable to get a divorce if things "arent working"
If you're willing to try it can definitly work.
As far as her staying gentle.. if she's a gentle person not only to you but just in general, as far as I'm concerned she'll stay that way. People's core personality is hard to change.
Good luck. Relationships are work.
Like "Just Married" says: Some days I loved her, some days I had to work at it.
2007-01-11 09:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by Julie Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a gentle woman she will be gentle unless your behavior changes. That is what she is and will be with or without you. Love goes from the intense 'all the time' need to 'I know you are there and I appreciate it' kind of thing all the time, because its less intense, doesn't mean it doesn't exist. The change from exciting unmarried love to the more stable and solid married love takes at least two years, and if you don't recognize that you can think you aren't in love anymore.
I do think love can last forever, if you take care of it.
2007-01-11 09:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! No one ever stays the same forever. That's what maturity is all about. Life's experiences & knowledge changes us. That doesn't mean she won't love you anymore. Her love may get deeper. Love is not only a feeling, it's an action. Caring for you when you're seriously ill (not a common cold), caring for your parents, your children from a previous relationship, your siblings. . . this is love. She may be gently now, but things will definately change, but not necessarily for the worst. Dont be scared to love. If it doesn't work out, it's okay. You will eventually find what you're looking for!
2007-01-11 09:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by KARMA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman and her personality, how she cares herself, what her attitude on life is like. If she is the type that sticks to one man and that is the one that she wants then yes, she will be true to him and be honest and communicate with him when something going on and to keep the relationship alive. If she the party girl type who sometimes never settles down then the answer is no. True love love being dedicated takes work, but it can be done as long as the two parties agree to work things out when times get really tough.
2007-01-11 09:43:49 · answer #5 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody changes (men and women), rather she changes for the good or not, may have a lot to do with how you treat her.
2007-01-11 09:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they don't. Neither do men. Relationships change with time, children, jobs, money problems, different directions taken, etc.
2007-01-11 09:42:33 · answer #7 · answered by fishingbabe8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don,t think that men or women say the same we all will change in life one point or another,,but you can grow and change together in love
2007-01-11 09:41:26 · answer #8 · answered by yome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this one depends on each and every individual.... ppl do change... if shes gentle, i dun think she will change to a nasty person? =/
2007-01-11 09:45:04 · answer #9 · answered by sadgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Marriage changes EVERYTHING.
2007-01-11 09:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by Allyson_3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋