he says that i dont hug him at night when we sleep together,its not that i dont love him.is jus that am tired at night and jus want too sleep.and he says that i dont like kissing him no more.but i dont see any of those things he's seeing.and i want too know if am really doing those things,does that means am falling out of love with him?
2007-01-11 01:26:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps not falling out of love with him, but have become more comfortable with him and no longer feel the need to continue to act a certain way. If he has noticed a change, it would be almost certain that a change is there. At least the way he sees it. He is for whatever reason feeling neglected and is looking for some reassurance. Do you still get the butterflies when you know you are going to see him? Have you let your appearance go to crap? Are you depressed or has the stress of everyday life taken it's toll on you? There are many things to consider before jumping to the conclusion that you are falling out of love with him. If you are not repulsed by him and want to be with him, show him. Don't just tell him. Show him. WE as woman, want to be shown. It should work that way for both parties.
2007-01-11 01:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have entered the "comfortable" stage trap. This is why so many couples have problems and end up splitting up. Think back to when u were first together..........were u ever too tired at night to show him affection? were u excited to see him and couldn't wait to kiss him? If we only put in the same amount of effort that we did at the beginning couples would always have that "new" exciting feeling. You need to show him the love u used to and never take him for granted or in the end the person starts to feel unloved and unwanted and that is when people drift apart. Remember love doesnt continue to grow without hard work and a commitment to making the other person feel special. Good luck
2007-01-11 01:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no your not falling out of love, i am the same way and i'm deeply in love ith my boo, but i also don't hug him at moments and sometimes don't kiss at all, that does not mean ur falling out of love your jus tooo tired to be lovey dovey all the time......and let him know that ur tired so he would know that ur still in love with him....and might i suggest planning a romantic dinner for 2 so the ove is still shown in ur relationship.....good luck
2007-01-11 01:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by ♥LADY INDIA♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are to immature, the both of you, to be in an intimate relationship. Relationships are about more than hugs and kisses. That's why you have grandmothers.
2007-01-11 01:33:54 · answer #4 · answered by fishingbabe8 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no i dont think it does...mine says the same thing too sometime but in a joking manner...just talk to him about it!!!
2007-01-11 01:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by Haley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋