hi my name is Sam
im in a relation for the last 7 months evrythin was goin fine till now
i was really happy with whatevr was happenin
for the last two days
my gf is kinda ignoring me
shes not talkin to me properly didnt even call me up
n today whn i went to meet her
she was talkin like shes least intrested
i dont know what went wrong or wht i did wrong
i really love her a lot n i cant bear this pain anymore
whn i ask her whts wrong she dosent tell me anythin
i never complaind to her bout anythin or never raised my voice at her or even refused anythin she said to me
to this relation ive given evrythin i could
i gave her all my time n loved her so much i bet nobody ever loved any1 like i love her
i cant think buot anythin else shes always on my mind n im totally crazy bout her, n becuz of wht shes doin now i cant eat or sleep i cant even breathe i dont know wht went wrong n she wont even tell me i cant live without her
plz help me
i wish nobody suffers this fate
thnx
2007-01-11 01:24:25 · 4 answers · asked by Random Dude 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
'What did I do wrong' is a question at which only one person can answer. And that is your girlfriend. That happened to me. Just that my bf left me without saying anything. He started by being cold and spoke rarelya nd then he was pretending like not having time to see me. I lately found out the reason why we broke up: his best frined who was in the same highschool with me was telling him different sories and gossipped about me, things that were untrue. And my boy just believed him because he was his best friend, and I had no ideea why he was acting like that.
Your girl might have a reason, but you need to sit down and talk, not just ask her during a movie or on the street 'Hey! What's wrong?'
2007-01-11 01:45:22 · answer #1 · answered by Alice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sam
Sorry you are having trouble with your girlfriend and I am sure you care a lot about her, whatever is going on with her, most of it can't be you, unless she heard something about you and is afraid to talk to you about it. It seems you have worried yourself to the point you don't eat, sleep, or can't breathe. It is time you put your foot down once again and talk to your girlfriend and let her know how you feel and that you are concerned and you want to know what is going on. She may at first be reluctant say anything to you and might refuse some responses to her questions but at least you will get something out of her. Ask her how she feels about the relationship in general and if there is something that needs to be worked on then let know you and her can work on it she feels it can be saved. If not then , it is time you stopped feeling sorry for yourself and move on. You should only do this if the relationship is not working out and she refuses to talk to you, look you in the eye. Sometimes things don't go the way we want them to, but we have to make the best of a situation.
2007-01-11 01:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look yalfathon or whatevr dont be disrespecting females like that
that may be all u like woman for so dont be telling stupid lies
anyways moving with my answer
did u ask one of her friend if anything was wrong with her
she might just be having a hard time right now
2007-01-11 01:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by 100%Lovable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yalfathon - terrible advice, please troll somewhere else.
Hi Sam,
I would point out to her that she seems different and not interested and you want an explanation. Refuse to accept the "nothing is wrong" answer, because you know that's not true.
Perhaps something serious has gone wrong and this is her way of showing that. Unfortunately to me it seems she might have lost interested in you, or she has found another guy to entertain herself with. These things happen, and they're not your fault.
2007-01-11 01:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋