If not ,so when?
and how can i say it to her ?
2007-01-11 00:29:49 · 15 answers · asked by arya112004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if yes, so when?
and how can i say it to her?
2007-01-11 00:33:58 · update #1
Yes it is wrong, you should save it for the person you are going to marry.
My ex fiance promised me the moon and the stars and them broke my heart, I only did it once(before I knew God more almost 2 years ago ) and I'm still regretting it and I will for the rest of my life and if I can turn the clock back i would don't make such a stupid mistake. :-(
2007-01-11 00:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't say it's wrong if the both of y'all are ready. And that's the main question as to when are the both of y'all ready? Sex is something that shouldn't be forced on a person if they're ready then you will know when it's time and at this point you shouldn't have to say anything to her because she will when she's ready.
2007-01-11 08:37:00 · answer #2 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just because she is there is not a reason to have sex with her. Do not feel obligated or that it is your duty. As far as when, you'll know... it shouldn't be premeditated or planned. Tell her the truth, you love her company and love being with her. Timing is everything and being responsible is most important. If she loves you, it won't matter and patience is key.
2007-01-11 08:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by Saz_E 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
it depends on her beliefs i mean if she believes that sex is an after marriage thing then don't push her as you will more than likely lose her but if not then talk to her and see if she wants to try it or try some of those things guys do to get you in the mood
2007-01-11 08:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by megan p 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wait till your married. It's better because then she will be yours and you won't have to go thru the agony when she leaves.
2007-01-11 08:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by tx_earthangel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are ready then slowly cuddle and start to make the first moves and if she isnt ready she will tell you then you just have to wait until she is ready
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2007-01-11 08:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by undecided 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it depends, if you aren't as familiar with her, the answer is no, wait until you know her more, just say I'm not ready for sex, hopefully she will understand. if you know her more, think if you really want to.
2007-01-11 08:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by iLikeTrains 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
not if you use protection and she is willing, explain to her how you feel about your relationship, tell her that you want to have sex and that you want to do it responsibly and tell her that there is no pressure that if she isn't ready yet that's okay you still love her and mean it.
2007-01-11 08:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by kim 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What do you mean here??? But if you think ya'll are mature enough and u BOTH want to then why not....
2007-01-11 08:34:57 · answer #9 · answered by justagirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
raging hormones!!! just do it damn it! be spontaneous! if she resisted, then buzz off.. have respect for the girl..
2007-01-11 08:35:17 · answer #10 · answered by markbriones 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋