i've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 yrs n i've found a question on here that he has said he's had bad relaltionships including ours! and he thinks i shouldnt got mad coz it was when we had split up for a few days
2007-01-11 00:15:35 · 18 answers · asked by sarahl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He needs to get over the past
2007-01-11 00:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most men are not gits. You should be asking why your boyfriend is a git. If your relationship is a bit pants and you split up now and again for a few days, maybe you should just bin it completely and have a break for a while.
2007-01-11 00:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are wondering why your boyfriend has hurt you like this. BUt have you considered his feelings. Why does he feel like all his relationships are bad? Are you contributing to this feeling? Could you make him feel better?
Just like with a lot of things if you are not part of the solution in a relationship then you are part of the problem. Change things around and start doing nice things for your boyfriend instead of just expecting him to do things for you. You will soon see that men aren't gits they are just people who want the same level of love and respect that you do. And you will have an appreciative and loving partner.
2007-01-11 00:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by Leapling 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's a git? And you can only talk about your boyfriend, not all men. You should not have gotten mad . . . he has every right to take care of himself. That includes avoiding bad relationships. Yes, even you can be the cause of bad relationships. Take responsibility and learn from it. Good luck!
2007-01-11 00:21:48 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy in your relationship you shouldn't get mad about this. He was just feeling bad because you two had split up. He would think it was a bad relationship, i bet you did too at the time, but he didn't mean it. He could have done at lot worse than to have vented his feelings to a lot of people he will probably never meet. How did you feel at the time?
2007-01-11 00:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by davespnr 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well not all men are gits. I think it is rude of your boyfriend to post a question about your relationship knowing full well you use this site.
2007-01-11 00:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Dee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think thats ok for him to do. if youd split up for a few days would you want him to be happy? its kind of disrespectful to him reading his questions like that. give him a break. and anyone can be a git, not just men.
2007-01-11 00:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by john9999999 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all men are gits. it does work otherway round too. i have been told i'm a really nice guy who has never hurt anyone and has respect for people but i'm still single. dont know why.
2007-01-11 05:47:28 · answer #8 · answered by handy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are that he was meetin this other person the last few weeks b4 you spilt.
didnt actually like this girl, and then got back with you.
try and not let the past get to you.
just think new year, fresh start!
2007-01-11 00:31:08 · answer #9 · answered by geminially 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop The Press !
Sometimes people say & do stupid things when they have just broken up...!
He was probably upset. Look at it this way: would you have been happier if he hadn't given a sh*t ?
2007-01-11 00:20:42 · answer #10 · answered by Well, said Alberto 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋