my man says that we need to do more for each other we are very much in love but we have been together for 7 yrs and sometimes when yo have beeen together for so long you get a bit lazy so i think i need to do some thing BIG to remind howw much i love tim any idears please
2007-01-11 00:09:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHAT YOU SAY IS TRUE.
THE ANSWER IS ALREADY IN YOUR QUESTION.
TRY NOT TO TAKE EACH OTHER FOR GRANTED, PERHAPS TREAT THE DAY AS YOUR LAST DAY TOGETHER. WRITE A LIST OF ALL THE POSITIVE THINGS ABOUT HIM AND TELL HIM, " I LOVE YOU BECAUSE". PERHAPS THINK OF YOUR DATING AND ROMANCE EXPERIENCES, CAN THESE BE RECAPTURED?
CAN YOU SMILE AND GENUINELY LOOK FORWARD TO SEEING HIM? IF SO TELL HIM AND LET HIM KNOW THAT THE TIME APART IS STILL DIFFICULT FOR YOU BUT I THINK MOST OF ALL REALISE THAT WE DO TAKE THAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP FOR GRANTED AND HOW MANY REGRETS WOULD YOU BOTH HAVE IF THEY WERE NOT HERE TOMORROW, WHAT WOULD YOU WISH YOU HAD SAID OR DONE DIFFERENTLY?
2007-01-14 01:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by freephoenixuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how you feel. We have been married for 9 years and dated for 2, total of 11. It does change. I have decided that as we get older we change. What is his favorite thing? I like to go out and eat dinner and go to a club or to a friend of ours who has a small bar at his house where people hang out. He goes sometimes just to make me happy. He has gotten to a point in his life that he is content sitting at home and I like to be around a crowd on the weekends. If it is sports he loves, then getting some tickets to a game and going with him and getting involved would be a great gesture. If you can afford it, maybe a vacation for the 2 of you that you will both enjoy would rekindle some romance. We are going to Cancun next week and I think this is going to help us. We have never been on a far away vacation since we have been together. Good luck to you and hope this helps.
2007-01-11 08:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by tinbarnprimitives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you may not think so, is the every day little things,that counts when you are with somebody.. the details like making his dinner, washing his clothes... believe me that man should appreciate all of this seven years is a long time... but if you still feel you need something else to show him, you could ask him baby what can I do?? to improve our relationship and work on this together. He should be trying to improve too? towards you making you feel special.. I think that is great wht you trying to do.. good luck
2007-01-11 08:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day just go all out, clean the place, cook him a meal let him relax after the meal and like a couple of hours later tell him to give you a quicky, guy's love a good quicky without having to mess around with all that four-play or hour of going at it, guy's are lazy and love a woman who allows him to be lazy once and a while. But of course not every day just give him a good day every now and then where he can be happy for what he works for.
2007-01-11 08:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cook him a great meal!
If you could get away with your partner for a date night once a week, you won’t regret it. Whether going out for dinner, or a movie, or a long walk together, it will bring the two of you closer together. Plus, getting away from the kids is a great stress reliever.
2007-01-11 08:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start to spice things up in the bedroom ,got a strippers pole.
dress a little more spicey, change your look, and touch him a little more just as he passes by, slap him in the ***cook something new , go out and bring back the time you first went out remember the feelings, do it again because i,m sure this you don,t forget.
i,m 51 and this weekend i have sunday planned for staying in bed all day with my man, vodka sunrises include.
2007-01-11 08:22:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surprise him with a morning ******** and sneak into the shower with him occasionally! Now I stress Occasionally because if you do it too often than he wont appreciate it and will expect it all the time! Good Luck!
2007-01-11 08:15:34 · answer #7 · answered by Ellie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tackle tha big hunk of mangina and have a wild romp in the sack then in the morning cook him breakfast. tell him you love him. but really maybe you just need some hugs and some cuddlin time
2007-01-11 08:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plenty of bjs should do the trick but don't forget your on the 7 year Itch get by this year and the 10 year and your cruising
2007-01-11 08:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by fivelighters 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cook him a nice meal, give him a nice hot bath, wear something sexy and let nature takes it course.
Bring back that sparkle everyone has in their honeymoon period.
2007-01-11 08:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋