I love being tied up, but I can't get my wife into doing it anymore, advice?

Question

I kind of tease her about it all the time, but she's usually just too tired, or its maybe tomorrow.

Answer 1

you have to find out what turns her on about this kinda activity and make sure she gets that. otherwise she just isn't going to want to tie you up.

So what can she do while your tied up that will rev her motor? ANd the answer is not "go shopping" although that might work for her......LOL!!!

You know, if she's not dominant then she just might not have the right psyche for it. and if she is dominant then she needs to be able to do what she wants (within limits) to you. Be that spanking you, or paddling you, or tickling you or any one of a number of tortures that might make her laugh and have fun at your expense.... maybe she'd like to stuff her panties in your mouth so you can't talk and that way you can't be telling her what to do....
You might want to contact a local bdsm educational group. We have several in wash dc and also baltimore and I'm sure there is one near you. Just start searching.
http://www.br.org
http://www.bess-md.org

tom

Answer 2

Maybe your wife is tired of doing this with you all the time, maybe she wants you to try a different style every time both of you want to get intimate with each other. Just try something new this time maybe it will work instead of that one style of she tieing you up every time you guys of to do it.

Answer 3

So she used to and now she doesnt? Maybe try pampering her a little (not with diapers you freaks) and lead up to the bondage...dont just jump on her and say Im going to tie you up.

Answer 4

See a psychiatrist? No offense. That's my advice. Good luck!

Answer 5

you need to explain how much it means to you and be like look if you scratch my back ill scratch yours and **** like that? lets say she enjoys felatio you do that and she will do the whole s and m thing 4 you