Do you think it is wrong for me to seek the company of prostitutes?

Question

I have been divorced 10 years, am in my 50's and have no particular desire to remarry or get seriously involved with a woman.
However, despite my advancing years, I still have desires to fulfill or relieve.
I occasionally seek the company of a "high class" girl for a couple of hours company. The no strings attached suits me, she is usually very attractive and intellegent, I feel no guilt or should I?

Answer 1

The fact that you are asking suggests that you are not entirely comfortable with the idea yourself.

I suggest you use that money to take a nice lady on a date or to get yourself out there. You never know, you might meet someone who will change your mind about getting involved again...

Answer 2

I'm surprised you need a couple of hours.

Why do you feel guilty? Some of the best sexual experiences I have ever had , have been with prostitutes. And I think if more people were honest, they'd all say the same.

It's a drag having to wear a condom though, i couldn't hack THAT nowadays.

Enjoy shagging your high class call girl, you are lucky you can afford this little luxury. And don't pick up street prostitutes, they are riddled with disease and heroin.

Answer 3

It's your money. Be aware that just because a woman is "high class" doesn't mean she's immune to sexually transmitted disease or the like. And given that this practice is illegal in most areas, it does often attract a seedy element. Be cautious. Get recommendations from others about who might be safe.

I wouldn't say you should feel guilty, but I think the fact that you're asking may be rather telling. Could it be you have some misgivings you haven't admitted to yourself? Only you can tell for sure.

Answer 4

Why should you feel any guilt? It's better than stringing women along who are looking for a relationship when you're only looking for sex - I think that more people should be open about their needs and desires in the first instance :-) and I think that prostitutes provide a service much in the way that a chef does - you don't always want to cook for yourself...

Answer 5

No you shouldnt but do you really want to keep paying the money when you can find a lady that wants to be with you? Its not really a problem as long as they are high class and not off the streets cause they have all kinds of deseases. xx

Answer 6

i really dont think so
i would never do anything like that

but more people do it then leed on
atleast there high up people

and im guessing you use protection?

well yes you only live once
and i give you props for doing that
insted of just dating a girl and using her!

well good luck with all that stuff

hope you get your moneys worth
=)

Answer 7

Handle your biznaz.

God says it is wrong. But I don't think I would want to meet you if you haven't "relieved" yourself in years.

You should repent after the act, and ask Him to bring someone in your life who isn't a professional whore.

You still have some marketability in your 50's.

Answer 8

well your not bothering anybody, if this arrangement suits you than by all means keep on trucking, sometime we say that having a prostitute male or female is better than relationships,no one to answer to have your fun and call it a night ,as apposed to yes dear no dear how many bags full dear,

i think even myself might take that road if i wanted no hassel in any way.

Answer 9

i dont think you should feel guilty about it to be honest

your not married, have nobody special in your life! so why not

im in my 20's and ive already decided that if my current relationship doesnt work out that i am going to do the casual thing for a while

just be careful

Answer 10

Prostitutes? Can't you find a woman that only wants one thing like you, other than a prostitute? I guess it's whatever floats you boat! Be carefull out there.....