But the guy doenst want to let go?????and theres a possibility that he might kill you,for breaking him up??????????????but i cant tell the police for some reasons.............hope you can tell me the best thing to do.
2007-01-10 23:30:17 · 15 answers · asked by jenelicious2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is dangerous just get out and find someone to stay with like a family member or a friend or a women's shelter. Don't stay in a violent situation because it is not love or anything like it. Get out now!
2007-01-10 23:34:46 · answer #1 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Here is an Idea. When he goes to work and if you work on the day he does, get into your car and act like you are going to work as y ou normally do that is if you have separate cars. And if you do drive to work and then turn around and come right back home. call your work and tell them that you cant come in because you need to get out of your home that you are in danger. have a friend or family member with you, grab as much personal belonging as you can, clothes, shoes, pictures, money, you know just whatever is your's that you can get into your car, pack it up and leave. Dont leave a note or anything. Go straight to your friends house or family member. I would prefer to go to a womans shelter cause that would be the last place he would look for you at. Have a family member go back over to your home with a police man to get the rest of your belongings. That away you know you can not be touched. Or you can do it yourself and bring a cop with you. You do not need to be in a home where you are being threatened. You should be careful and not let him know you are leaving.
2007-01-10 23:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle_204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,it's Demi!!I answered your last question about Why we can't live forever!I thought I'd give you a piece if my mind!
You are subject to both psychological and physical danger in the situation you are currently.Know that you have to take action and not even think about living with someone,when there is even a hint that he may actually,KILL you for any reason.Don't go to the police in the first place.It is a threat,that he will kill you,you can't prove it and even if you do,they will probably do nothing to him.He will just be out and around and fully aware that you told the police everything.
Visit a shelter for abused women.They will be able to give u the best advice.The matter is too serious for me to tell u exactly what to do,but I would trust these people.
Love!!G luck
2007-01-11 08:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by Demi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you fear for your life then you really need to get out of the house and relationship. Your options really all depend on your situation and what you're willing to do. I don't know these things so I can't really tell you exactly what to do. One way or another you need to let people know you don't want to be with this guy anymore and you fear he may hurt you. Have some friends or family be there with you when you tell him you need to part ways. If he threatens you after that then you need to get over whatever reason you think you can't tell police and get a restraining order. Good luck to you.
2007-01-10 23:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the lease/morgage is in your name, kick him out. Tell him he has 24 hours and go to a friends with anything super important. If he is still there when you come back, call the police (there is no reason you can't... call the local number and not 911).
If it is a dual lease/morgage then YOU leave. It belongs to both of you and both of you have an equal right to be there.
2007-01-10 23:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by bpbjess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Escape. Seek refugee somewhere secure. There's plenty of shelters for abused women. There must be a local one where you live at. Once you're safe and secure, then get a protection order. You can even try and have an identity change. That way it'll be harder for him to find you. Move to any other state, or to Europe.
2007-01-10 23:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by M'lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is so funny, one moment one says "I am so in love.." and next moment "I want to get out of it" ... Is this really love or just a game?
If you really want to get of it, do it, but don't hurt the poor man any further. Is he really such a rotten guy or does the problem lies with you?
2007-01-10 23:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by j t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start thinking about moving to far-away place that he doesnt know plan your best escape make sure you dont look back wait for the right time and when its the right time get out fast
2007-01-10 23:34:46 · answer #8 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd boot him out. If he threatened to kill me, he would be looking down the barrel of my rifle.
2007-01-10 23:42:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r in a critical situation. whatever he says u do it oppositely, so that he will also try to break up with u.
2007-01-10 23:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋