Me 24 and my ex boyfriend 28, were seeing each other for over 6 months on and off as my "Gemini" ex has been so indecisive about a relationship typical gemini! but everyday together had been great mentally stimulating, fun, even crazy! we gelled right from the start. But I decided to move on as he was to fickle and indecisive. We broke up around 4 weeks ago and I haven't contacted him as I am not the possessive type and have tried to start seeing someone else. My ex has been calling and emailing me since from work and said to me last week that he misses me, not only as a lover but friend. He misses someone to talk to & liaise with. He came to see me last week, he couldn't resist all over me etc, but still doesn't know what he wants saying things like "lets see how it goes".I told him that I am giving things ago with this other guy & then only this Monday day he tried to ask me if I fancied coming round for dinner. I told him I would let him know, and haven't contacted him, am I right?
2007-01-10 23:17:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen sweetie, if you're currently seeing someone else, it's not right to be haniging out with your ex! Unless you want him back, go for it & break up with the new guy, but 6 yrs for a relationship would clear out any doubts about it, like if you really want this guy ( your ex ), if 6 yrs you would normally know the answer & either stay or leave for good.
But seriously, if you want him back, what do you want out of the relationship? because you had a long time to think & know where you wanna be in life, with this guy or someone else, so, if these urges to see him are comin' outa' just missing the guy, then don't do it , but if you realized deep inside that he's the one for you, then do it, & try not to hurt anyone else along the way.
2007-01-10 23:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by CupCake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to you what you want. However, it sounds like you were on quite a roller coaster. I was there about a year ago. Don't contact him. Keep moving forward. Make the break.
Time heals and if you two were meant to be the friends that he desires, you can come back to that, but only after you've made a break and given yourself time to move past this loving relationship.
2007-01-11 07:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sheesh--forget him--if he doesn't know by now he never will. Simple as that. Sounds like all he wants is an occasional "couldn't resist all over me etc" and you oblige him.
2007-01-11 07:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mr_B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋