i am exhausted from her?

Question

my grandaughter did not come home last night i was running around the streets looking for her, thats after i waled 5miles and carried 4 bags fo shopping, i found out wher she was but its a long way, i have really really had enough of this kid, i coudl not even call the police to get her and i just feel exhausted today, she is wearing me out. she has done, this to me lots of times stayed out, she is only nine. i cant, t call the police because they will tell me i know where she is and i just do not have the energy to walk another 5 miles and i have no money left. some of its the people she hangs around with but i carn,t get the raway from them. Maninly boys, she dont, go to school as she has been excluded, for bad behaviour. she is going to meet a sex pervert one of these days. what do i do

Answer 1

You poor thing. I went thru a phase when i was about 13 (now 24) of stayin out n was kicked out of 2 schools. My mum was prob too easy on me n pretty much let me do what i wanted. You have to be cruel to be kind though not a pushover. It's d only way she will respect you n ultimately you will save her from herself. She's a kid at 9 yrs old. DO call the police. Tell dem your situation n that you need to give her a fright. My aunty did it wit her 11 yr old son an it worked. Let dem pick her up an let her stew for a few hrs. Good luck x

Answer 2

You need to sort her out before she gets really bad, you should sit her down at home and talk to her let her know you are not joking any more and you are really upset with her. Say you can not cope with her and she might have to leave even if you wont let her go but scare her into behaving. You also need to find out the reason why she is rebelin, and why she is acting as badley but lay the law down. Maybe you could go on a talk show and send her to boot camp or something or maybe look for a help line you can ring but it is best to act now before she puts herself in danager. And then you need to get her back in school she wont do anything with out an education. Good Luck. xx

Answer 3

You need to lay down the law and tell her that this is how things need to be ( in other words your house she needs to be respectful) next time she goes missing do not look for her but call the police first. She can be charged with running away I believe in the states and she needs a good wake up such as juvenile hall to show her life is not so great if you don't behave

Answer 4

If the parents are not around and you cannot get the help of other family members, you may have to call on Social Welfare or other Child Support agencies you may have in your area. It is important that you act now, before your grand daughter becomes a victim or a liability. So pls hurry!

Answer 5

2 things...
Where are her Parents? you have raised your Children maybe now is the time you should be enjoying spending time with your Grandchildren.

I think you need to acknowledge that your Grandaughter is out of control & she could get into serious danger.

If it were me I would...
Either contact her Parents & explain whats been happening & show them your request for answers on this web site...They need to acknowledge that their child is there responsability to keep safe...you have done your best & now its time for them to sort it...
OR
contact social services...It doesn't mean you have failed...
It just means that you could get some proper help for her.

Good luck & God bless.

Answer 6

THE LIL GIRL NEEDS TO FIND OUT THE REALITY OF LIFE TAKE HER AROUND TO SOME HOMELESS PEOPLE N START GIVIN THE ATTIDUTE THAT U DNT CARE ABOUT HER, SHE NEED TO GROW UP,

Answer 7

Get some help

Family?

Local council

Social Services?

The longer you leave it the worse it gets

Answer 8

well remind her that she is ruining her life,thats all you can do except if you ask for help from some authority to help you with your granddaughter,

Answer 9

break her