i can do anything for her .. we had the break about 5 months ago but i still love her ... and want to get back to her.. i had proposed her two times... but she said no... but whenever i am in front of her i fell nervous..i dont know why.... i love her like anything.... and she also knows that..she has a lot of attitude in her.. may be because she is sexy.. whenever i proposed her she said no... but she never told me that please dont talk to me and stop thinking about me.. i really care for her.... as i had told her many times indirectly also...like had taken the help from my friend who is a best friend of her...her friend has really helped me a lot ... but could not help us to get in a relationships... my girl has lot of bad things in her but i still like her...like she had already had about 7 boyfriends...... in her life.. but now at present she is in a relationship with some other guy who is really rich and who gives gifts to her occasionally...my friends says that she is greedy...
2007-01-10 22:20:25 · 13 answers · asked by kamal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't sound like love...more like obsession over the thought of being rejected and have serious self-esteem issues where you think you will be a better person or prove your worth by capturing the heart of someone who has rejected you. It sounds like you need to find a good therapist to deal with those issues in order to move on with your life.
She has already turned you down and moved on with her life and if you keep pursuing her, it could be considered stalking if she gets to the point where she has to ask you directly not to contact her and to leave her alone.
2007-01-10 22:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her that much, maybe the best thing you can do for her is give her the space she needs to be with her new boyfriend. I know this sounds harsh, but judging by what you say, she is happy, and if you really care about her, you would be happy for her. I know this is easier said than done, but times change, and people move on. If your relationship did't work out, there must have been a reason for it, and generally relationships that don't work once are unlikely to work again in my experience. You will find somebody else better suited to you one day
2007-01-11 06:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by Eleanora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems as if you are mistaking love for lust. As you say, she is really sexy. Ask yourself, what other great qualities does she have? She is greedy & sexy? Is this all you desire in a person you want to spend the rest of your life with? Seems as if you still have to get some "smarts" when it comes to picking the right person. She seems imature and into herself, move on and try to be more selective next time. Sexy does not last forever, where inner beauty does.
2007-01-11 09:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get back with an ex is to forget about her alltogether and move on. Well, maybe not, but at least you'll have moved on. Seriously, you propose to a girl, she turns you down, twice, you broke up months ago. She's moved on man. She's not the only one out there for you. Seriously, if you keep obsessing like this, you'll crack and you'll need a tin foil hat to keep all your thoughts in.
It's healthier to forget about her. For both of you.
2007-01-11 06:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by AbbeyDLaurence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are obsessed. You need to go through the heartbreak that you haven't allowed yourself to go through-it's normal. She is obviously not what you are looking for if she refused your hand in marriage twice now and is dating someone else. You will find that once you move on, (which is not easy), you will be a lot happier. And don't worry, you WILL find another girl that you will probably be even more crazy about then this one.
2007-01-11 06:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by Dayout6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget both girls and find someone else. Why keep beating yourself up for something you can't have or don't want. i.e. the old girlfriend and the one you have now.
There are plenty of fish in the sea. Now just go catch one!
This time...find a girl who likes the same activities as you, such as, climbing mountains, then go find a mountain club. Find your next girlfriend who enjoys the same things as you and she'll be more interested in you too.
Wish you luck
2007-01-11 06:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by babbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since its 5 months already, you have to move on and look for another girl who is match for you. don't bother your self about the past ok? she is one of your past now so try to make a change interms of relationship. write down all the bad things that you've done so you will never do it again then, all the good one's that most of girls like you for that. get it? who knows, your right girl is waiting for you..maybe beside you now. =) godbless!
2007-01-11 06:35:20 · answer #7 · answered by music_lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very clear to me that that girl is not interested in you. why cant you understand that? dont you have any self respect? just because she hasnt said anything directly to you, you think she still love you? how stupid.
cant you see? she is using you. some girls (even boys) are like that. they lie it when they see some one is giving them so much importance even if they are not interested.
dont you think you deserve a better girl who likes, loves and respects you? forget her and look for that Ms. right.
2007-01-11 07:59:38 · answer #8 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Even if she takes your proposal, you'll cheat and hurt you in the future. Find someone who deserves you for you.
2007-01-11 06:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by RunSueRun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, no matter how painful it would take This will keep u from more heartaches in the future.
2007-01-11 06:58:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋