well... my friend has a really friendly boyfriend. but when he came back from his trip of 1.5 months , she said he's sorta've changed ... its a really long story...
she told me on the phone that he's not the same. They used to feed each other when they eat but now he'd say things like "it's ok, it's your food" when she tries to feed him. he also say things like "okay... i'd try to love you more than my sister" but I don't know if he's kidding or serious.
I got a feeling he didn't 100% love her that much in the first place but i'm not him... how should i know? I don't like what he's doing to her.
she told him that they should break up but he said he doesn't want to. I think that he's playing 'tragic' when he doesn't give a damn. but I don't know... do people actually pretend that they don't wanna break up?
they have been together for 1.5 years and my friend loves her boyfriend alot but she can't stand what is happening between them. what do you think should be done?
2007-01-10 21:53:09 · 4 answers · asked by Spidergurl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like he maybe had some "fun" on his trip and it changed how he feels about her. If she is unhappy, she should break up with him. Who cares if he wants to or not? It's her happiness she should be concerned with. Life is WAY to short to spend it with someone who doesn't make you happy.
2007-01-10 22:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoa, ease up on the guy. so he's tired of the spoonfeeding game.. big deal.
relationships don't stay the same forever, we do grow and change. what was fun yesterday may not be so exciting today.
when he said, "okay... i'd try to love you more than my sister"...sounds like a harmless joke.
If these 2 reasons are reason enough for your friend to want to break up with him, it is her with the problems, not him.
2007-01-11 06:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by Magz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously up to something, playing games, cheating, something. She should break up w/ him, if he comes crawling back then he still cares. Then she can make him answer all her questions, if he wants her to take him back. If he blows her off then good riddance, because he obviously didn't love her all that much..
2007-01-11 06:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by GreyGHost29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I strongly suggest u to dont talk to his bf. at all. Becoz this situation in between them only,
'' I appreciate that u care 4 ur friend''
Advice 2 ur friend Have Patience......... & when she finds things to be totally out of control ( in future)'' or dont like the behaviour of her BF.. Then ur friend should ask straight... to him That "" what happens with him'' or she can say that '' He change alot .... after coming from that trip''''
She should ask to his BF.............. all these things.
But I dont think u should involve into ''their'' matter ''directly..''
GOOD LUCK TO UR FRIEND..........!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-11 06:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋