my man left his girl for me and at the begining of our relationship expected us all to be happy friends. i tried for his sake to be her friend - but she called my a weido and that pist me off. since then - i hate her and want nothing to do with her in our lives and i have told my guy that AS WELL. but sometimes, i know he wishes that i would be able to get along with his ex. should i try to be friends - knowing she will insult me at any given chance?
2007-01-10 21:37:15 · 7 answers · asked by CHAMaya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first thing you have to ask yourself is why does he want his X in the picture at all ,,,,, And why does it seem so important to him ,,,, He's got a choice ahead of him here ,,,,, I think he should either choose between you or her ,,, I mean it's like having an ex wife living in a spare room at the back of the house he has with his new wife lol ,,,, I see no profit in your having to be involved with her at all and if his feelings for you were where they should be then he wouldn't even mention her name ,,,, You shouldn't be expected to put your own welfare and peace of mind on the line for one of his X girlfriends and he's a jerk for even expecting it ,,,, As I see it this situation places a decision before you too ,,,, If he can't do with out her completely then you need to let him do completely with out you ,,,, You don't need this crap and you deserve better than that ,,,, Were I in your place I would give more thought to just getting out of that situation altogether because he's already mentioned and talked to you about it so you already know where his mind is at ,,,, You'd most likely be better off with a broken leg ,,,, Maybe he wants to start a harem ,,,, Well let him do it minus you ,,,, Hey ,,, there are allot of fish in the pond ,,,, You don't need this crap ,,,,, Go fishing ,,,, find some one that's fun and exciting to be with and is willing to treat you the way you should be treated ,,,, They are out there ,,,, All you have to do is find one and some of them atleast will come trouble and problem free ,,,, His head is not straight and his mind is not where it should be ,,,, If you agree with this crazy thing he wants then probably the next thing he's going to want you to agree to is a threesom for starters,,,, That might sound far fetched but with a blithering idiot like him you never know ,,,, there are other people better than him ,,,, He's trying to not only use you but make you look like a fool ,,,, I mean what do you think other people are gong to think if they see you and him and her together like one happy family ,,,, It's just not fare to you to be expected to put up with her rudeness ,,,, inslults and or just plane bad manners ,,,, Drop this guy like a hot rock ,,,, You'll be better off for it in the long run,,,,, Good luck ,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,
2007-01-10 22:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope - by doing that you're treading on dangerous ground - don't hate her for what she said though, she is just lashing out. why is your boyfriend so hellbound on the two of you being friends? if they are such fantastic friends why did he leave her? You want a boyfriend - not a boyfriend with the ex in tow! It's just too weird ... not to mention RISKY! he may decide to break up with you for someone else in the future and expect the two of you to be friends as well... what's the guy on? crack? i say ditch them both and move on -
2007-01-10 22:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by Bite Me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't take it personally. You trying to befriend her can be taken as you mocking her with her loss. Best to leave her in peace and not hate. Whatever she said, it wasn't directed at you it was directed and her frustration with the relationship.
2007-01-10 21:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by GreenManorite 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-02 03:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think it is kinda weird he wants u to be friedns with his ex, wats he aiming for a threes-ome!?...I say he should worry more about ur feelings than worry about the friendships his ex has...dont be her friend, u dont have to like her but I think maybe respect her if ya noe wat I mean!
2007-01-10 21:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by James M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think u should...make it clear wit ur boy friend..ask him to choose btw u or her....one cant have all
2007-01-10 21:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by santosh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't try it...she's not over him so it won't work. it'll just end up getting weirder.
2007-01-10 21:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by tahoegirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋